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post #21 of 26
Oh man, do we have some sweet hubbies, or what?
Here's a silly tale for ya. . .

I have been craving buffalo wings for months, and recently confided this to my husband. Of course, over Thanksgiving during our visit to family the trouble started. On Friday we went out to a bar with friends, and stayed up really late. I was hungry and tired, but dh and our friend wanted to go to one more place for another beer to chat. I said ok, as long as I could get some food! We went to a bar, but found out that the kitchen had closed. I nearly lost it, but dh got me some pretzels and I suffered in relative silence. Next morning was tough, but I dealt. Stayed up too late and didn't have enough to eat, you know?

So we had been planning a visit to a city 1hr + away for business and waited a really long time to do it. We got into a small sedan with our friends & their toddler to make the trip. By the end I was tired, hungry and feeling very uncomfortable. I was really looking forward to our plan of having pizza with my family that night - I always look forward to having pizza when I go to NY, since there is NO good pizza in CA. Anyway, I had to go out and visit a friend, so by the time we were ready to leave, we called home and found that most of the pizza was gone. My lovely BIL even said - "and I'm just getting my second wind!" I almost cried, but in a super human effort to keep it together , I told dh we could go to the pizza place and order our own. Of course we got there and found out that they had closed not 10 minutes earlier. So we went next door to the Chinese place. I was so disappointed and depressed. DH offers to go next door to the grocery store for buffalo wings, but I don't want frozen!! I want fresh! Crispy! Bar food! So I tell him no, sit with a cup of tea and commence feeling sorry for myself as he leaves for the store.

We pick up our food and drive home. I pile a plate high full of Chinese food, take one bite and can't eat any more. It suddenly disgusts me. There are a few pieces of pizza left. My mom heats one up for me and I take a bite and can't eat any more of it either! Nothing would satisfy me. People were asking me if I was ok and I start crying. It was awful!!!

So the next day DH shows me frozen wings he bought the night before, for lunch that day. Sweet, but I really had to stop myself from yelling - I don't want that kind!!!!!!!! But it doesn't even matter, 'cause we end up leaving for our separate planes before we even get to try them. (Mom calls later thanking us for the great dinner - arrgh).

Flash forward to tonight when dh comes home from getting a video and has a pizza in hand. Plus one other box. Wings from Little Caesar's! Such a sweetie. He hates wings (chicken on the bone grosses him out), so they're only for me. I have to smile and thank him as I eat them all - totally not what I'm craving! He just doesn't get it, but so wants to make me happy. I realize I'm one of the luckiest girls in the world.

But I still crave wings.
post #22 of 26
awwwww
that was so cool of him to keep trying

I dunno...I keep having my meltdowns in private.
I don't think dh knows that I've had any
(I've had plenty...2 on Friday alone )

It is kind of frustrating, because I want him to be like my cat and intinctively know when I'm upset and come and find me (I miss that kitty)
But I can't imagine he would have a clue what to do
and when he is around, I don't meltdown, I just get angry and mad

post #23 of 26
Awww eorr, that's so sweet! : Bravo to to so many sweet DH's that try so hard but have no way of knowing the powers of the specifics of the mighty craving, including mine. Dang man, you just about have me craving hot wings from the bar, swimmin' in sauce and jalapenos. Hmmm... I've had a few meltdowns but preggo brain (AKA CRS ) has me in it's viscious clutches and I cannot remember specifics right now. For now I will continue to LMAO at hurling potato stories and other meltdowns.
post #24 of 26
I am absolutely dying laughing here! And relived that I am not the only one- but my first story is more weepy crazy than yelling crazy (those I have had those days too).... my dh works out of town Monday-Friday (and many times for 2 weeks straight) so I am home alone with my boys most fo the time. It also means that we have to schedule EVERYTHING around his schedule. (this is will be very important later). Well, my birthday was on Tuesday before Thanksgviving and dh was home the entire week before. So I kept hoping that I would get a nice birthday present- you know to make up for the fact that I am always home alone and that I have been sick for the past 3 months. Well, he had to leave back out on Monday before Thanksgiving so I was already bummed that he wouldn't be here for my birthday but I really kept thinking that he was going to have something great up his sleeve. My mom usually makes Sunday dinner for me for my birthday- anything I want- so I usually look forward to that so we didn't plan anything for Sunday afternoon. Nothing from her- no mention of it. And my dad died 8 years ago (in October) so I usually get really down thinking about him during the holidays (we were really close) but I try to keep a strong front up about it. And we always had a tradition for my birthday- we would go to the same place and I would order the same thing- just one of those things that we *always* did. So on Sunday at church we are standing around talking to people afterwards and someone mentions going to the place that I used to go with my dad and I mention to dh as we get in the car something along the lines of "we haven't gone there in a long time." So, he goes, well, let's go there for your birthday. And I lose it. I am sitting in the car bawling like a baby because at this point, it hits me that dh has planned/gotten me nothing, nada, zip. So I am like- just go home, I want to go home. I am inconsolable (sp?). I don't want to go to that place because, while I love going there and love the food, it was the place I went with my dad, kwim? And my dad would never have forgotten my birthday or let it pass without doing something (omg- I am starting to cry just typing this again). So we come home and I just cannot stop crying. My feelings are just that hurt. And in my mind, I know I shouldn't be this upset over this but I can't help it. Anyway, we end up eating there anyway, but it really wasn't a meal that I enjoyed. And I didn't get a damn thing for my birthday either.

Now for my yelling crazy story, we scheduled our big u/s over 2 weeks in advance so that dh would be able to be home for it given his sucky work schedule. Well, it was supposed to be last Friday- did I get to go? Why no- DH HAD TO BE OUT OF TOWN FOR WORK!!!! Despite the fact that he had given them plenty of notice of the date, they still scheduled him for a job that required him to be out of town for 2 weeks. So, I had to call and reschedule my u/s as well as my regular OB appt so that we can have an u/s appt for late on a Fruday afternoon to insure that he'll be home for it. I have had a really horrible pregnancy so far and been really stressed because of being home alone all the time and worrying about having two babies 15 months apart...so I am hoping that the u/s will help kick start my excitement for this pregnancy. And now, I have to wait an entire week longer- so I call dh freaking out because his job is SSOO much more important than me and our family and what will help us and I am sick and tired of scheduling my life around HIS JOB. It was horrible. And now it's supposed to snow here on Friday.....
post #25 of 26
aw,mama!I cried with you thru the birthday meal fiasco!
Sending big,fat,juicy whatever food you want whenever you want it formed hugs.(never sent a food hug,but this calls for it,I think!)
post #26 of 26
Oh zaksma, that's no good. Big hugs. Somebody better give you some major TLC real soon!
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