wishing you both the best. And remember (and if you don't, read threads like myra's), these events are much harder on the mamas than on the babies.
My dd had a tooth capped with only a sedative in the office, and she did just fine! Yours will too
Take care of yourself and stay calm... Have you tried peace and calming, an essential oil blend? I think smilemomma recommends it in combination with Roman chamomile ~ for babies, but also (and maybe even more) for mamas... Just rubbing the oils in can be therapeutic and calming in itself, KWIM?
I'll think of you both Wednesday. Tell us how it goes!