supermom
Member posted 01-12-2001 08:34 AM
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I am overjoyed to find a place where breastfeeding is supported in the light of dental problems. I have a 2 1/2 year old son who has cavities in five teeth. I first became aware of this about a year ago and I was heartbroken. We have been to see 4 dentists and all have placed the blame exclusively on b.f. My son is an extemely active child and getting him to sit in his chair through dinner is difficult. For this reason we have been told that sedating him is the only option for the repair of his teeth. In visits to dentists we have tried different measures to calm my son enough to fill the cavities. He was given laughing gas which didn't seem to affect him at all. He was given Demoral which he promply threw up, and finally, he was given a sedative which he had an adverse reaction to. It was terrible, he was like an angry drunk, unable to walk, but he didn't want to be held. I had to hold him against me as he screamed and hit me and arched his back. All we could do was wait two hours for the medication to wear off. And in the end no dental work had been done. After this last attempt 6 months ago, we have been seeing a naturopathic doctor in an attempt to remineralize his teeth and avoid dental work altogether. It has not worked however, and he has recently been experiencing pain when eating certain things. At the end of this month he has an appointment at a children's hospital in a town an hour away. I know they will want to put him to sleep and do all the dental work in one shot. I have serious misgivings about this in light of his previous severe reations to sedatives, but I don't know of any other options at this point. I have searched and searched for a dentist who will work with him without using sedatives, but have found no one. I feel so helpless and have been treated with nothing short of disgust at every dentist we have been to. If you have any suggestions or know of web sites where I could get more information I would be very grateful.
Thanks,
Kelly
megerina
Member posted 01-12-2001 09:17 AM
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Kelly,
Make sur the PD you go to is aware fo the sedative reactions your son has had in the past. Not all sedatives are the same, sjust as no two people will have the same reactions to some. Get the records from the dentists that have tried to work on your son, so they have an accurate knowlege of what drugs were used and the amounts.
don't beat yourself up. I have one child who was breastfed, but her mouth was wiped out after every feeding in her sleep who still has caries problems now in her twenties, despite an almost anal dental hygeine regimen. My next duaghter we were looser with, figuring we would just have the same problems no matter what, and she is now 15 with NO cavities. The next has a "million dollar mouth," despite careful attention to her teeth and limiting sweets. She also won't deal with the dentist unless sedated. Don't know about DS, but am hoping he gets the 50% shot at inheriting my teeth, rather than Frank's.
As far as your son, it will probably be less trauma in the long run if they do all the work while they have him under. Why put him through more anesthesia than necessary? My DH can tell you from experience, there is nothing worse than bad, untreated teeth for pain.
Get him fixed up and you and he will be much happier people. You might also want to see about sealing his adult teeth as they come in if he is cavity prone. This can be done without the trauma of crilling and drugs.
Good luck
Member posted 01-12-2001 08:34 AM
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I am overjoyed to find a place where breastfeeding is supported in the light of dental problems. I have a 2 1/2 year old son who has cavities in five teeth. I first became aware of this about a year ago and I was heartbroken. We have been to see 4 dentists and all have placed the blame exclusively on b.f. My son is an extemely active child and getting him to sit in his chair through dinner is difficult. For this reason we have been told that sedating him is the only option for the repair of his teeth. In visits to dentists we have tried different measures to calm my son enough to fill the cavities. He was given laughing gas which didn't seem to affect him at all. He was given Demoral which he promply threw up, and finally, he was given a sedative which he had an adverse reaction to. It was terrible, he was like an angry drunk, unable to walk, but he didn't want to be held. I had to hold him against me as he screamed and hit me and arched his back. All we could do was wait two hours for the medication to wear off. And in the end no dental work had been done. After this last attempt 6 months ago, we have been seeing a naturopathic doctor in an attempt to remineralize his teeth and avoid dental work altogether. It has not worked however, and he has recently been experiencing pain when eating certain things. At the end of this month he has an appointment at a children's hospital in a town an hour away. I know they will want to put him to sleep and do all the dental work in one shot. I have serious misgivings about this in light of his previous severe reations to sedatives, but I don't know of any other options at this point. I have searched and searched for a dentist who will work with him without using sedatives, but have found no one. I feel so helpless and have been treated with nothing short of disgust at every dentist we have been to. If you have any suggestions or know of web sites where I could get more information I would be very grateful.
Thanks,
Kelly
megerina
Member posted 01-12-2001 09:17 AM
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Kelly,
Make sur the PD you go to is aware fo the sedative reactions your son has had in the past. Not all sedatives are the same, sjust as no two people will have the same reactions to some. Get the records from the dentists that have tried to work on your son, so they have an accurate knowlege of what drugs were used and the amounts.
don't beat yourself up. I have one child who was breastfed, but her mouth was wiped out after every feeding in her sleep who still has caries problems now in her twenties, despite an almost anal dental hygeine regimen. My next duaghter we were looser with, figuring we would just have the same problems no matter what, and she is now 15 with NO cavities. The next has a "million dollar mouth," despite careful attention to her teeth and limiting sweets. She also won't deal with the dentist unless sedated. Don't know about DS, but am hoping he gets the 50% shot at inheriting my teeth, rather than Frank's.
As far as your son, it will probably be less trauma in the long run if they do all the work while they have him under. Why put him through more anesthesia than necessary? My DH can tell you from experience, there is nothing worse than bad, untreated teeth for pain.
Get him fixed up and you and he will be much happier people. You might also want to see about sealing his adult teeth as they come in if he is cavity prone. This can be done without the trauma of crilling and drugs.
Good luck










And in the end the dentist could not do it. She does not have in office nitrous and does not feel comfortable with the papoose which I find as a plus. But this, leaving us with having to find yet another dentist. I am feeling torn. I am really ready to get it taken care of and have a fresh slate to work with so to speak, because dd is really wonderful about brushing now. She was not at all at the beginning , that along with extended (still) BF and genes I attribute to her cavities. They want to do the sedation and I cannot be in the room, which just kills me. I know smilemomma, you say don't go anywhere where they don't let you in, but because of our insurance we have limitations to which dentists we can see. I just want it to be over with, I have been stressing over this for so long. Any advice would be great. thank you

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