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post #41 of 124
I had my 40 week check yesterday with the midwife and today is my edd. I'll be really surprised if we don't go past our edd at this point, but I am not feeling like I am "over due" yet. I actually talked with the midwife about that yesterday since they like to schedule an induction at the 41 week appointment which is next Tuesday for me. I don't think I will go that far, but if I do I am going to refuse to be induced until I am 41 weeks 3 or 4 days. I have said that if we go that far I might think of having my membranes swept, but that is about it. I did have an internal exam and haven't made much progress in dialation, but am at least 75% effaced. Now if he would just stop trying to break my pubic bone with my head and actually put pressure on my cervix everything would be good.

After my appointment we had to take dd to the ped's office. She has been having a nasty outbreak of eczema on just one elbow. Usually I can get them under control with tea tree oil in shea butter, but for some reason it hasn't worked this time. So we went to her new ped's office and I was far less then impressed. They actually forgot we were waiting in an exam room! We were there close to 2 hours just to get her eczema checked out and ended up having to do a full physical ugh! In the end the nurse practicioner said she wasn't even sure it was eczema because it looked like it could be a scrape. Well, yes it is bad and has gotten to the point it is bleeding at times that would be the reason we brought her in to be seen. I get to keep an eye on it and do what I have been doing and if it isn't better in a month go back to see them. They also were asking me if she has ever had any wheezing or trouble breathing since some kids with eczema also have asthma. I have had asthma since I was a child I would notice if she was having any problems. I am just not impressed with this office. I am hoping that things aren't usually that bad, but since this was just a quick thing I needed cared for I might end up switching us all to a family practice doctor. The one good thing about their office was I didn't see any advertising from formula companies and I was looking for it.
post #42 of 124
Well, at my MW appt today, I went ahead and had her check me, just for my own knowledge. 2-3cm, which is what I was 2 weeks ago, so methinks I might have been 2-3cm all along. 50% effaced, baby is high - like -4 station. Well all is normal for a 2nd timer. No indication that the baby will be falling out of me anytime soon.

On Thurs I see the doc and we will discuss our options. I am not really sure what they are if I go past 41w. As my MW said, this doc is already so outside of the normal protocols for this area, its hard to know what he will say re: postdates. DH is freaking out at the thought that I could still be pregnant next week. I am too, since Ben will be out of school the whole week for Tgiving and the thought of being alone with him and 10 months pregnant...ugh. I had hoped to be resting with a new babe, with DH on Ben duty that week.

Oh well. I am going to enjoy my last couple of days while Ben is in school and I have no one else to take care of this week. Tomorrow I have NO PLANS for the whole 6 hours he is gone. What should I do? I wish I could afford a massage or something silly.

Well, I am starving. Off to go feed this baby who clearly has way too much of a mind of her own right now. Breech and overdue. What next?
post #43 of 124
GatorNNP- I sure hope your VBAC plans work out!

It has really been amazing me how many of us are going 'overdue' and right up to our due dates, even non-first time moms! Interesting.

Well, I finally am on 'vacation' and getting some R&R. I have felt this entire preg. that I haven't ever gotten a chance to rest or do anything to 'treat' myself, I've just been working, doing toddler duty, and housework constantly with no breaks. All of your talk about massages and accupunture and getting to watch tv, etc has made me really jealous!

So now that this is my first official day off of work, I went for a massage (mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!) which I've desperately needed, bought the herbs for my herb bath after birth, and had lunch by myself while ds was at daycare. Now he's napping so I'll do more housework, but since I got to relax this am, it'll be good to help get the place in order.

Still no signs of anything happening.....but in my head all this time I've been thinking, I need to get through the weekend, when dh and I got a babysitter and went out (our last hurrah), and then get to my massage, then I will feel free to have the baby! So I'm ready now. Not really anxious yet, but ready if it should happen. Although I could still have a whole nother month to go!!
post #44 of 124
welll, its now blizzarding here, and dh is panicking, because if i go into labor when its like this, no more midwife and doula at the hospital birthing center, for the sake of safety and so we dont end up birthing in a snow drift we're going to HAVE to go unassisted.......

poor guy is so nervous.....he didnt even want to have a homebirth with a midwife he was so nervous! so we compromised on the midwife and hospital birth center i told him we'd just have the baby, bundle him up in bed w/ me and nurse away until it was nice outside again, and whenever that happened we could schedule a checkup..........he wasnt very happy w/ that.

post #45 of 124
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Originally Posted by babykaoss
welll, its now blizzarding here, and dh is panicking, because if i go into labor when its like this, no more midwife and doula at the hospital birthing center, for the sake of safety and so we dont end up birthing in a snow drift we're going to HAVE to go unassisted.......

poor guy is so nervous.....he didnt even want to have a homebirth with a midwife he was so nervous! so we compromised on the midwife and hospital birth center i told him we'd just have the baby, bundle him up in bed w/ me and nurse away until it was nice outside again, and whenever that happened we could schedule a checkup..........he wasnt very happy w/ that.

Sounds like my hubby. He's EMT certified and has already helped deliver other babies and I keep hinting how much easier it would be to just let our new girl come at home right into her daddy's arms. He's not up for that, just too nervous about it being his kid from his wife, and yadda yadda yadda!
post #46 of 124
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Lucky itsybitsy!!! I want a massage so bad right about now, but I don't think we've got the extra cash at the moment. I might hint about it tonight and see what DH says though.

I think I might be having contractions or BH or something. Definitely new sensations (tm INXS) down there but I'm trying not to get too hopeful; I'm still 9 days from my due date. I don't think the full moon is going to be able to help though; it's supposed to rain non-stop for the next few days. So I'm just hoping that the fact that I bought Harry Potter tickets for Friday night will be enough motivation for the baby to head on out and ruin our plans for our last date together!

Sending "LET'S GET THIS PARTY STARTED ALREADY" vibes to everyone!!!
post #47 of 124
I think my sinus infection is starting to clear up a little. I'm so congested my teeth hurt but with a little nasal spray I can breathe a little.
5 days until my EDD and no end in sight. I'm jealous for all of you who have cool things like losing your mucus plug and breaking water and stuff. The best I have is a sore lower back and a grinding, nerve pinching bowling ball in the crotch thing.
post #48 of 124
Today was my LAST specialist appt!!!!!!!

Phone calls/emails to our house are starting to increase. Several people have offered to meet for lunch or come over. I'm not sure if I want to do that or if I would rather have lots of nice me time. There are still a few things around the house that need to be done, but my energy is very limited right now.

We have a cold front coming in right now and it is awesome! I still wore sandals and a tank top today. LOL Maybe this will put me in a baking mood.
post #49 of 124
so i went to my 40 week midwife appointment. i asked her to check me and im 2 cm dialated on the outside but 0 on the inside and still pretty posterior ..but very soft..she did a stretch and sweep..which i know lots of you may think is weird but i really want things to happen this week.. im starting to tire of being pregnant ( and have family waiting.. maybe thats why baby is being stubborn). im going to go in for another on thursday if i havnt gone into labour by then.. she said 2 days apart is good.. so we will see.. it actually felt really good.. and i had some bloody show after which i took as a good sign.. its the only intervention ive had this whole pregnancy.. ive still yet to let them use doppler or had an ultrasound.. so i feel okay about it. i dunno why im explaining myself.. im just crazy.

anyways.. tonight is trashy tuesday .. a tradition in my house the last few months ( my sister and i ).. i rarely watch tv but we watch americas next top model..house and gilmore girls.. its soo cheesy and trashy but great.. itsreally fun to have a girls night. so i have that to look forward to.. and my sis is bringing chocolate sundaes home maybe i can lure the baby out

i hope you all have a lovely evening (i guess lots of your evenings are over by now..) so sweet dreams
post #50 of 124
I had my 40 wk appt today too - I was only 1 cm dilated and 50% effaced, they did the stretch-n-sweep and reassured me that my nasty hemorrhoids wouldn't interfere with labour or anything so I feel better now... then I went for my acupuncture appt and spent an hour being a human pincushion, which is strangely relaxing. I had really nasty cervical pain this morning - not the "knife in the cervix" feeling most of us get, more like my cervix was just under a lot of pressure. The baby was very wriggly all through the midwife appointment and her head isn't engaged yet - I think she was just pushing really hard on my cervix at times, which is probably good for it but it felt like I had an IUD in wrong. A mobile, hostile IUD. Fortunately that stopped after the acupuncture.

I doubt I'll go into labour on the full moon like I thought - it's probably more like at least a week away, but I'll get the midwives to do another stretch-n-sweep on Friday. It wasn't that bad - no worse than a regular internal exam - and I think I'd probably end up going way overdue without it and I'd rather not have the spectre of induction floating over my head. My acupuncturist said she could do a much more aggressive labour-inducing session next week if I wanted. Better than a pit drip, I'm thinking...
post #51 of 124
I had an appointment, too. I had an internal exam but no NST. I would consider accupunture, so Spughy I am wondering how to go about finding one that is good with labor stuff -- like would any accupunturist know this, or should I try to get one that specializes in that.

I am annoyed about the "pressure" I felt to get thing moving, I'm not even 41 weeks get. My stats are 1 cm, ripe or soft (is that the same thing) and posterior cervix. Whatever that means.
post #52 of 124
In interpreting cervical exam results, its good to think of the Bishops Score, which takes all the stats into effect and gives you a score on how successful an induction is likely to be. So if you are thinking in terms of what is more favorable for labor, the higher the score, the better.

But....my doula disclaimer...you can walk about dilated to 4cm for weeks and go from 0 to 10 in hours...there is no way to know for sure what the future holds based on an exam, but just a snapshot of what your body is doing at that time.
post #53 of 124
It looks like tuesday is a popular day for midwife appointments! We did go in and see the midwives today, and it looks like I'm making very slow progress, dilated to a little more than one and about 50% effaced, but she could feel Elliot's head right there at about -1 station, so that's a big improvement. We did the stripping of membranes thing, and I definately felt like I got crampier and the baby dropped way further into my pelvis on account of that, so I'm hoping he's at 0 station now and putting pressure on my cervix.

I really wanted to go for a nice long walk tonight, but the weather is frightful and inclement, so I think we're going to put it off and perhaps do some mall walking tomorrow with DH since he'll be home with me all day.

While we were at the birth center getting checked over, another baby was being born in one of the birthing suites. The energy was just unbelievable and so exciting. So, hopefully our little one will get excited by the good example!

In other news, the man who packed my bags at the grocery this evening MUST DIE! Because, obviously, when I asked for plastic bags on account of the fact that it's pissing down sleet outside, I meant for him to use the extra-flimsy paper ones that disintegrate in the wet, AND I meant for him to put all the heavy items in one bag so it would rupture in the parking lot and send me scurrying about on the ground, in the dark and sleety rain, while dodging cars and people who could scarcely see me, for my groceries. Which a) sucks. and b) sucks extra-much when getting down on your knees basically requires a crane and a hoist. DIE, Grocery man, DIE!!
post #54 of 124
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Originally Posted by BensMom
..you can walk about dilated to 4cm for weeks and go from 0 to 10 in hours...there is no way to know for sure what the future holds based on an exam, but just a snapshot of what your body is doing at that time.
I keep reminding myself (and everyone else!) of that little factoid. I have my 39 week appointment on Friday and I've decided it's pretty pointless to do an internal at that time. I've been reaching up and trying to feel what's going on but I'm not sure what I'm supposed to be feeling for, so that's pointless too!! So for me, it's going to be more sex and "baby come out" hypnosis until 11/24, and then I will probably do accupressure if things aren't happening on their own.

We're starting to get the calls and emails. I can't remember who said it yesterday but yeah, I'm trying to tell myself to just be grateful that people care, but the truth is I find it pretty annoying. Seriously, don't call us - we'll call you!

Hey Fern, don't feel you have to justify your decision - about the membrane sweep OR trashy TV!!
post #55 of 124
I went ahead & asked my MW to check me yesterday mostly just for fun & curiousity. Nope, no dilation. But I didn't dilate (or lose my plug) until I was actually IN labor with my other 2, so I imagine this one may be the same.

Tomorrow I am getting a 90 min pregnancy massage. It sounds like heaven, I can't wait! I've heard (from my own MW even) that this masseuse (sp?) is "brilliant" at finding pressure points & sending women into labor. My MW says she's had plenty of women begin laboring after visiting Christina. Soooo, of course I have my hopes all up, I'll be 39 weeks tomorrow, & I am completely ready..... We shall see!!

The number of contractions I have shocks me. I swore many weeks ago that my body couldn't possibly keep this level of cx up for more entire weeks.... but it has, & they've only gotten longer lasting & greater in #. SO weird. I contract every 5 mins., by the clock, the entire day sometimes. And sometimes the intense ones keep me up for hours at night..... I have dozens upon dozens a day, for at least a month now, no exaggerating. This all makes me wonder even MORE than I already have since conception, if my actual labor is going to be terrorizingly fast. Like, have I been in prodromal/early labor for a whole month & then suddenly I will be seized by active, hard labor like a train suddenly running me down?!

Whether the full moon is helping any of you all along or not, it sure is gorgeous!! (But I am sending labor vibes out to you all anyway!)

I'm pretty convinced that we're going to have this baby explosion any day now. Like 10+ babies all in one week. Babies, babies everywhere!!
post #56 of 124
I can't bring myself to respond to the birth announcements. I don't have anything happy to say. I just want to say "Why was it you and not me?" I'm SO sick of being pregnant. I can't sleep anymore and I want it to be a little crying newborn instead of a sore back/hips/having to pee or something else. I haven't eaten in three days because of this effing sinus infection nothing sounds even remotely tempting and when I lay down it feels like my face is going to explode so I'm sitting up awake while everyone else is asleep. I'm really bitchy and pissed off right now and it's 4 days until my due date and I don't want to wait anymore.
Sigh. I hope I'm not the only one, I'd hate to be the pregnancy Grinch.
post #57 of 124
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Aww DID, sorry you are feeling so totally cruddy. At least you can feel better knowing you aren't the only one awake right now.

I just read Willemsmama's announcement that she had her baby. Yay for her! I hope you are right, Zjande, that we have a big box full o'babies by the end of this week! This month is now over half-way gone and I know that fewer than half of us have had our babies.
post #58 of 124
DinD: been there, done that, wore the t-shirt (todays t-shirt says NO MORE MS NICE PERSON- it's a survivor from my uni days). Right now, I'm out the other side: I know that the baby has to come at some point, and that some point is almost certainly going to be in the next 14 days. Nothing I can do can get these contractions going stronger and more productive, so I might as well just relax and go with the flow. I think the pregnancy grinch mantle is kind of wandering around the group, so it really isn't just you.
Zjande: I think that too. All my other labours have been slow and stately and really very comfortable- these ctx I've been having this time hurt a lot more: but the midwife keeps on warning me that when things finally take off this time, it could go really fast. Someone posted a link to homebirthuk a while ago, that grand multiparas (3+ babies) tend to niggle in prodromal labour all the way up to about 6cm, and then once things really start to take off: that's it. 60 minutes, 2 hours- something ridiculously short like that. I can't say I'm excited by the idea: I like slow and stately, it suits me.
post #59 of 124
Anyone noticed, Bailey228 hasn't been online in a couple of days??? Here's hoping...
post #60 of 124
Laisett is also MIA, and I think we are past her due date...

My ctrx last night were weird - very low crampy like the worst menstrual cramps. I could only sit all the way forward or lie down. So I went to lie down and of course that made them stop. DiD, I'm very much with you. I jsut can't believe I'm still pregnant. As I've said, everyone on earth thought Karl would be here by now, and I've been ready for him since before Halloween, so all of the waiting now just feels agonizing. I feel like I have so much to grump about - no energy, huge hemorhhoids (at least I could poop this AM), my belly actually hurts, my belly button hurts, I've lost all iinterest in food but I'm hungry all the time so it is all gross...on the other hand, I know this baby will be here within 3 weeks because we won't go more than 2 weeks past my due date (I'm 39 wks today by lmp, 39w2d by u/s) so it really will be any minute. But I'm ready to start looking at acupressure, castor oil, etc.

What is castor oil exactly, anyway.

I'm working from home today and have been told not to bother coming in next week. We'll tackle the following week if I'm still pregnant, but I think I'll just be working from home because coming in is really too hard. I was up at midnight (when the moon was evidently full in NY) but it was cloudy and rainy so I coulnd't catch any moonbeams. Bummer!

Gotta go wake up DH now. We're going to do some cleaning up today. Hooray!
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