1) cleanilness. Is the house clean? Are the toys disinfected daily? If not, maybe offer to clean them yourself since this is your Aunt. If she seems lax about it. I'd rather spend 30 minutes cleaning a day than days with a sick child -- and cleaning will also reduce 'colds' and hence days off work for you. I'm not sure if I would stick to my vinegar and EO in this situation. I might resort to a commerical cleaner non-toxic for children.
2) I totally ignor new vaxes as a general rule. Prevnar is 'new' and the doctor did a scar tactic on me which did scar me, but didn't move me to vax. I look at it this way -- My parents, their parents never died of this bacteria strain, never even heard of it, I never died of a bacteria strain, my older kids never died from this bacteria or were even sick with it as far as I know. What is the likilhood that my child now will come in contact with this bacteria and die?
Each individual situation is different. I would have to think long and hard about putting my child in public daycare if that was the only option available. I'd much rather have them in a private home. However, in a daycare center they have rules they must adhere to with regards to cleanilness and in a home those rules can be relaxed making it a harbour for diseases not just vaccine preventables, but others as well.
Other information:
Bacteria are not irradicated by mass vaxing the population, they mutate to a stronger form and continue to survive. That is part of the problem with these bacteria that Prevnar and HIB vax for, they have mutated and the antibotics used to defeat them are now ineffective. Bacteria are resiliant creatures, no vaccine is going to prevent them from mutating again to be even stronger.
What I said to the doc threw her for a loop. I told her that if my child got this bacteria and died then that was God's will and I would have to accept that. I think she expected me to say "oh well if she could die then vax away."
I put my faith in God Almighty and a healthy immune system. And I do not believe vaccines are what God intended for His creation.
http://poisonevercure.150m.com/from_...view_point.htm
My ds2 is 3 1/2 and in preschool unvaxed. I do not worry, but he is also 3 1/2, not 8 months. BFing is important to their immune system especially in daycare, so I hope you are still bfing.