I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I empathize. We lost our first child at 19.5 weeks, 2 years ago, and we were in deep grief for a long time. You may want to check out the pregnancy losses threads : pregnancy and birth loss. I have found some comfort there. There are threads for women who have recently lost as well as for those who are ttc, and others who are pregnant, and there is a lot of empathy from my experience, and welcome for whatever stage you are at if you want to share.
I hope you will be gentle on yourself, losing a child is the pits and can evoke many large feelings. I agree with Red Oak Momma, your child feels your love, even if you can't hold her in your arms. Peace to you.