gift for 1 year anniversary of friends death?

[Mom2baldie]

My grandfather was killed last year on the 16th of December. The woman who found him was a very good friend of his and was devestated and traumatized by his violent death.

I am sure that she has been thinking about the fact that we are close to the 1 year anniversary of his death and I would like to send her something to let her know I am thinking of her on that day and to hopefully just cheer her up a little.

Is this appropriate? And if so, does anyone have any suggestions about something I could do? I have thought of flowers, but am wondering if there is anything more personal that I could do.

Thanks.

[mamabeca]

I think a kind card would be appropriate. Mention that you are thinking of her - that is probably what would mean the most. If you really wanted to get her something, maybe some wonderful tea or coffee, or a small book would be nice. But IMO a card says a LOT sorry about your grandfather

[frannyfresh]

Yes
i think it would be entirely appropriate for you to send her flowers and acknowledge that she is grieving too.

[beansricerevolt]

I agree with the other pp. That would be very thoughtful and sweet.

[applejuice]

I beleive that it would be thoughtful and sweet also since it is a way of saying that person is not forgotten.