We are planning a hb with a CPM.
Our first was a medicated hosp birth. It wasn't planned that way, but impatience, naivety & stress clouded my thinking and had epidural & pitocin. Epidural ran out 2 1/2 hours before birth, but I swore I'd never go that route again.
Our second was an unmedicated hosp birth. I was only in labour 3 1/2 hours and only at the hospital for 1 hour. BUT I had to fight the nurses (except 1 of them) about everything. I gave in on the episiotomy with the MD and I wish I hadn't. DH got to deliver the baby & we got out of there ASAP (still 24 hours later, though).
This one, I just want to be at home with. I don't want to have to worry about someone watching DDs. I want them with us. I just want a private and peaceful birth. DH is somewhat supportive of a HB but he does freak out about the idea of it every once in a while. When we meet with the CPM, I hope she helps deal with some of his fears.