All of you wise women. Asking for advice! We are a two mommy couple who has two beautiful children that i carried with my eggs and donor sperm. My partner has been ttc for about 2 years. She has had 10 IUIs (little less than half with drugs), and 2 IVFs without implantation. She has been said to have mild diminished ovarian reserve (the IVFs produced 3 embryos) The Dr. over and over says it has to do with the eggs or embryos and not something with her uterus though we have finally gotten him to have her tested for immunology issues. She has used accupunture throughout her attempts. What else. Oh we have a pretty limited about of our chosen donor's sperm left (3 vials) Well our options are as follow based on what our doctor says are our best (percentage-wise) bets. Me do everything (My eggs, my uterus), Half and Half - (my eggs, her uterus), or keep trying all with her. I am kind of scared and gun shy as I am getting older - 37, she is 35, and our DD has Down syndrome and i am scared of that happening again. I also get a feeling that she really wants to carry a baby emotionally and isn't ready to give up that dream. Oh did i add that we really should stop spending the money on this! Any way any advice would be awesome. I know there are no simple answers...Thank you in advance for your thoughts or advice.
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12/12/05 at 11:50pm