hey, carrie, you have a beautiful name!

you can get a ss# by filling out the form <a href="
http://www.ssa.gov/online/ss-5.html"> here</a>, i believe. i would google "[your state] birth certificate application" and i'm sure you'd find the form on some sort of state website.
DS has a SS# but no birth certificate yet... you have to have a billion forms of ID (ok - so maybe just two

) to get a birth certificate and i haven't gotten copies of what i need. i'm not positive on this, but your insurance should cover your DS without a SS#. we added our DS before we'd done any "official" paperwork and just put a DOB on the insurance app, figuring if they HAD to have a ss# they'd let us know, but if not, then we didn't need to give it to them. we've received documentation that says he's covered, so i would definitely at least try to get him on the insurance.
that said, it didn't take very long (a few weeks?) to get the SS#. HTH!
carrie