I am leaving you... (UPDATE Dec 18) - Page 4

[Kindermama]

Originally Posted by BCmamaof5

I am also reading a really good book called "Spirit Babies" (can't remember the author) that has helped. It is suggested that the same 'spirit baby' can return to you even after being miscarried. So, in essence I could conceive the same baby again & have it live. Comforting thought...even if it's only a 'dream'. KWIM?

So...I have hope & faith that we will be will that baby into existence.

Oh mama...I'm sorry your baby didn't stay....but I have that book! When I say didn't stay, that means, to me, that your baby may very well come back to you at another time....I truly believe this! I wish this for you! Best wishes with conceiving again.

[Kindermama]

Originally Posted by Mom4tot

had lost his way.

lost his way or better yet, had to be part of the changes that happen within you and your marriage after a MC. We had a MC a month before Ellery was officially conceived. By the time my period was late, I was mc'ing. I believe all that we went through in that month, got us "ready" for her. We knew then that we were truly ready to be parents again. Still today, I look back at how much I really wanted her to come to us...even now when she's is a super high needs mama-exhausting baby!