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I would concentrate on SHOWING them you don't need more money by paying them back.

As for the PPD it maybe that they are concerned about your sanity being "stuck at home" honestly any woman who has stayed home with kids knows that going to the relative peace of any workplace would probobly help a lot with PPD. I suffered too and a lot of people suggested I "get a job" becuase they knew that work outside the home would probobly be peaceful and filled with a lot more "attaboys" and might really help my mood. I think it would have- but my place was at home and I stuck it out. But people who didn't make this choice don't often understand why I did. They also don't understand why I didn't take drugs for the PPD.