Ok, so I am just seeking input here from those with an interest and/or special reasearch/focus in this area.
Currently, I operate a home-based child care/preschool (yes, legal, state regulated, lol!)
Spent many years working with children in center-based settings and took my degree in the field and decided after my most recent foray into seeking gainful employment in the area that I prefered to start my OWN place, since I was so appalled at the conditions in some of the others I saw. Just could NOT submit to some of the conditions/said *I* can do better than this.
ANYWAY, I have 2 siblings enrolled (4 year old boy and his 17 mth old sister) who have been with me for a yr or so.
These kids are fully vaxed and hardly ever "sick" (meaning exhibiting symptoms such as fever or vomitting, diareaha (sp) or other such acute manifestations. I have only had to send them home once for a gastro illness their mom put off to eating too many cupcakes, LOL, but HELLO! Seems my DD came down with "eating too many cupcakes" after she brought them here SICK
Of course, my DD had a tummy ache for a few hrs followed by vomitting once and was fine the next morning, whereas THEY had vomitting and runny stools for a week or more. Still, obvious that this was an infectious illness/viral thing, NOT too many "cupcakes"
But they are chronically coughing and snotty, esp. the little girl. And I KNOW it is not "allergies", since my whole family caught their "allergies" several weeks ago (lingering cough, congestion) and NOW have it AGAIN after completely recovering and being exposed to it again via them STILL having it!
FTR, I really cannot send them home for such stuff, not unless I want to lose them as clients altogether, which I do not (for all my beefs, including the CRAP diet they are fed at home and their chronic low grade illness, they are great kids and their parents are great overall)
And NO, it is not that she is medicating them and sending them with supressed symptoms; they are here 11 hrs a day. Any fever would reappear within a few hrs of dosing with antipyretics. (seen it many times; the parents who dose them up with OTC meds and then they wear off in a few to 4 hrs and I have to send them home sick)
What interests me is the apparent way some kids have of being chronically ill/less than healthy, since I have seen this so many times working in child care settings; the kids who ALWAYS have snot pouring down their face, ALWAYS seem to have a cough or other symptom, but hardly EVER have fever or any other acute sign their body is fighting off an infection.
Seems MOST kids are like this, but my own have NEVER been, even when in group settings (they rarely get ill, and when they do, they spike a fever, get acute symptoms, and toss it off in a day or 2.)
What is UP with this?
My evolving theory is that there is some immune malfunction at play here that allows some infectious condition to linger at a low grade level for mths as opposed to being resolved fully/acutely.
She gives them OTC meds at night for the coughing (I don't, and they hardly ever cough while here, some, but not to the point I would resort to the meds she leaves). Plus, despite working in a drs office, she is amazingly ignorant of basics like a viral gastro infection NOT responding to antibiotics and/or being contagious!
Just fishing for some input and opinion on this. I do think vaccines play a role in this (since mine are not/very minimally vaxed and have never displayed this) but I also think nutrition and other factors play a role.
I mean, to me, it is simply NOT "normal" for a child to average "9-12 colds per year" (as the AAP says is normal) or to be "sick" all the time at this low grade, unresolving level.
My goodness, mine average maybe 1-2 colds or other illnesses per year, and theirs resolve rapidly. They don't linger for weeks/mths!
Lilith
mom to John, 13
Sage, 6
Currently, I operate a home-based child care/preschool (yes, legal, state regulated, lol!)
Spent many years working with children in center-based settings and took my degree in the field and decided after my most recent foray into seeking gainful employment in the area that I prefered to start my OWN place, since I was so appalled at the conditions in some of the others I saw. Just could NOT submit to some of the conditions/said *I* can do better than this.
ANYWAY, I have 2 siblings enrolled (4 year old boy and his 17 mth old sister) who have been with me for a yr or so.
These kids are fully vaxed and hardly ever "sick" (meaning exhibiting symptoms such as fever or vomitting, diareaha (sp) or other such acute manifestations. I have only had to send them home once for a gastro illness their mom put off to eating too many cupcakes, LOL, but HELLO! Seems my DD came down with "eating too many cupcakes" after she brought them here SICK
Of course, my DD had a tummy ache for a few hrs followed by vomitting once and was fine the next morning, whereas THEY had vomitting and runny stools for a week or more. Still, obvious that this was an infectious illness/viral thing, NOT too many "cupcakes"
But they are chronically coughing and snotty, esp. the little girl. And I KNOW it is not "allergies", since my whole family caught their "allergies" several weeks ago (lingering cough, congestion) and NOW have it AGAIN after completely recovering and being exposed to it again via them STILL having it!
FTR, I really cannot send them home for such stuff, not unless I want to lose them as clients altogether, which I do not (for all my beefs, including the CRAP diet they are fed at home and their chronic low grade illness, they are great kids and their parents are great overall)
And NO, it is not that she is medicating them and sending them with supressed symptoms; they are here 11 hrs a day. Any fever would reappear within a few hrs of dosing with antipyretics. (seen it many times; the parents who dose them up with OTC meds and then they wear off in a few to 4 hrs and I have to send them home sick)
What interests me is the apparent way some kids have of being chronically ill/less than healthy, since I have seen this so many times working in child care settings; the kids who ALWAYS have snot pouring down their face, ALWAYS seem to have a cough or other symptom, but hardly EVER have fever or any other acute sign their body is fighting off an infection.
Seems MOST kids are like this, but my own have NEVER been, even when in group settings (they rarely get ill, and when they do, they spike a fever, get acute symptoms, and toss it off in a day or 2.)
What is UP with this?
My evolving theory is that there is some immune malfunction at play here that allows some infectious condition to linger at a low grade level for mths as opposed to being resolved fully/acutely.
She gives them OTC meds at night for the coughing (I don't, and they hardly ever cough while here, some, but not to the point I would resort to the meds she leaves). Plus, despite working in a drs office, she is amazingly ignorant of basics like a viral gastro infection NOT responding to antibiotics and/or being contagious!
Just fishing for some input and opinion on this. I do think vaccines play a role in this (since mine are not/very minimally vaxed and have never displayed this) but I also think nutrition and other factors play a role.
I mean, to me, it is simply NOT "normal" for a child to average "9-12 colds per year" (as the AAP says is normal) or to be "sick" all the time at this low grade, unresolving level.
My goodness, mine average maybe 1-2 colds or other illnesses per year, and theirs resolve rapidly. They don't linger for weeks/mths!
Lilith
mom to John, 13
Sage, 6












