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post #21 of 23
I would recommend an mp3 player. I am partial to iPods, personally. Just to clarify- user to user music sharing is legal. She can upload any of her friends CDS onto your computer and convert them into iTunes files, upload them to her iPod and delete them from the computer. (Just so long as she turns off automatic update!) User to user music sharing also includes user to user sharing online. Napster was illegal because you are downloading from random people. There are clients that are user to user, like soulseek, that are safe.

With the disc player she can only play the CDs if she has them with her. With an mp3 player she can take all her CDs with her, in a sense, and all her friends' CDs as well. No contest, IMO.

Also, almost all mp3 players have rechargable batteries. If you were to decide to get her a discman, I'd recommend one that also reads mp3s. That way, any music file she legally downloads or gets from a friend can be played in mp3 format, which means carring one CD with 60 songs as opposed to 16.
post #22 of 23
That wasn't really the point I was making...but okay.

I mean, one day, there is a possibility of "Gah! I hate wasteing all of my allowance on itunes...and everyone talks about FREE music off of KaZaa and stuff..as long as I don't leave it on my computer... *downloads in a frenzy*"
post #23 of 23
But what I'm saying is that she could download music for free from a legal client if she got that urge, she just needs to know the difference. Anyway, I don't think that not trusting teens and preteens before they've done something to break our trust is a very good way to work on an honest, open relationship with them.
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