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They did it again. They actually did it again.

post #1 of 47
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My sweet nephew is only eight days old, and he has now been circumcised twice.
We visited tonight. I was getting past it. I had decided I had to let it go. I might be mad and shocked, but I accepted it. I mean, he really DID still have almost all of his foreskin. The sexual aspect might have been gone, but the functionality of it was still there, for the most part.
Well, she wanted him to wake up to feed. So I undressed him, played with him a bit, and changed his diaper. I didn't want to change his diaper... I didn't want to see it. But at the same time, I at least wanted to check that they were properly caring for it.
The foreskin is GONE. ALL of it. It is TIGHT. There is nothing left but his bloody little stump of a penis. NOTHING.
I lost it. I asked her what the hell she did and she said that they didn't like the way it looked before, so they had it done again to make it look nicer (ie more like daddy).
This poor sweet little boy. I can't imagine him ever not being in pain. I don't know if they were doing 2 for 1 circumcisions in the mall or what, but whoever this sadist they took him to was, they took it all. I do not know how I am ever going to get past this now. I wish someone would just kidnap the baby and bomb the parents in the middle of the night.
post #2 of 47
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I asked her what the hell she did and she said that they didn't like the way it looked before, so they had it done again to make it look nicer (ie more like daddy).
Had it done AGAIN?!?!?!?

WTF, are you serious, they did this twice?

Poor Poor baby!

I am sooo sorry for you to have seen this, sorry for this poor little baby!
post #3 of 47
OMG, twice.... That is really hard to take. I am sorry for him and for you. Someday they might figure out what they've done wrong. They look young, not that that is any excuse. I'm sorry.
post #4 of 47
That f-ing SUCKS.

I am so sorry for this poor little guy. And may the unethical doctors who circed a newborn TWICE burn in hell.
post #5 of 47
I hate to suggest this, but maybe it's time you cut them out of your life. Shun them. Let them know what SCUM you think they are. Some people should NEVER be allowed to be parents.

I'm so sorry you have to deal with this.
post #6 of 47
Splash, I'm sorry. There are no words, and you did all you could.

and prayers for this little guy, if this is the kind of parenting he'll have to endure.
post #7 of 47
Holy cow.
post #8 of 47
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Originally Posted by njeb
I hate to suggest this, but maybe it's time you cut them out of your life. Shun them. Let them know what SCUM you think they are. Some people should NEVER be allowed to be parents.

I'm so sorry you have to deal with this.

i second that motion. (nak)
post #9 of 47
That woman is an evil bitch, I hope she never has another child. It sounds like she deserves her waste of space she calls a husband. I would cut her out of my life completely.
post #10 of 47
If repeated the words which just came out of my mouth I'd be banned. I'm so upset and disgusted. Infuriated that they've mutilated their son twice in his short life. I hope he sues them.

I wish there were a way you could report them to a child care service for sexual abuse and adopt him. He deserves better than the parents he's been born with.
post #11 of 47
What sick f*^#%. There is a special place in hell reserved for them both. I really hope you and Jean are able to cut them out, and it would be nice if you MIL could too.

Freakin' disgusting.
post #12 of 47
I can't for the life of me understand what kind of people would do this to a child. :Puke
post #13 of 47
whups!
post #14 of 47
What callous, selfish, inhumane peope! I hope baby heals well, restores whatever he can and reminds them daily of their cruelty. to you Splash, I am so sorry that you have to deal with this. Whatever else I have to say is unprintable.
post #15 of 47
Twice, hu?? Well, I hate to ask but is she done?? She's not gunn'a wanna "tweak" it again, is she??
post #16 of 47
to you splash
post #17 of 47
I can't even find the words without resorting to violent epithets.

Horrible people.

~Nay
post #18 of 47
this was beyond profanity for me and became a plea for direct divine intervention. dear lord, why?

how could they? what is in people's heads?

(hey you all, you may want to do some judicious editing. BELIEVE me i understand, but i think leaving the true obscenity here in this thread, what has happened to that poor, poor little boy, is extremely important. zachary's story may be enough to sway some people's minds, as dreadful as it is that this actually had to *happen* to anyone.

twice. you know, i read your title & thought, "oh no they didn't." i am still stunned that it was what i thought it was.

i'm so sorry, splash.

ps how is jean taking this? are her eyes opening more to the horror of it all?
post #19 of 47
I'm a bit of a...well you know. I'd go over to her, shake her hand and go, "congratulations, you just set your son up for burried penis. see that "extra" skin was there so he would grow into it. in about 6 years it would have looked just like [a-hole partners name here] except for size. now its probably going to look like a navel. have fun explaining why his penis recesses into his body and [a-hole partners name here]'s doesn't"
and then leave.
post #20 of 47
I'm sitting here with my mouth hanging open, I am in utter shock as to your post. I cannot fathom a doctor doing this nor the fact that loving parents would do such a thing.

I think I want to retract my last post to you.

I'm so sad for that poor little guy, someone should report the barbarian who butchered him not once but twice. I think the medical board should look into it.

With great sadness,
Pam
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