Originally Posted by pycelan
She apologized and said that she did not mean her post the way it sounded...she felt as though she was trying to help. After she apologized, noone said anything except to continue to attack/reprimand her. I just think that everyone could have given her a little bit of a break. She is new here, and I would be surprised if she posts on the entire site again because I am afraid this experience has left a bad taste in her mouth. I think everyone could have at least given her a "that's ok...thanks for apologizing".
On the other side, if somebody would have said (well, actually somebody did say and I was endlessly grateful for that later on) kind of what I said, it DID help a lot. And now I’m having a wonderful baby boy and looking fearless in the future where I will have to face my infertility again.
So, you girls are right, there was no apology in my words, there was an explanation though which everyone just seemed to ignore.
I’m going to post in many other places, as I do like the site a lot and would never give it up because of a situation like that. But, boy, it does feel so good that you cared about me posting or not. Thanks !!!!
I feel bad that I had to leave infertility forum, after all this one was probably the most interesting for me, but I still love reading and posting on “Breastfeeding, Find Your Tribe, Cloth Diapers, Health, Illumination Communication, Co-Sleeping and some others”. See you there!