It's going to be so hard for me like knowing of the good guys between the bad guys. I said to my mom it will be hard for me to even meet a guy because I sahm and my only 'real friend' who i stay in touch with since 98 would make my mom 'scream' unsafety ' when she brought a guy to 'my place' who was 4 yrs older than me and 5 yrs younger than my ex.
But I always get some a TO (turn off when it is guys who smokes) yech but then who knows maybe my ex still smoked after he said he didn't and I didn't smell it on him etc.
Sigh , that's the only guy I seen plus there's this one guy who i always runs into at the Pancake area .
I'm a pretty shy type of person and it has to do with a 'friend intro' than it would be with on my own because the only on my own was 'internet dating trouble' cuz that's how i met my ex.