Mostly I browse here once in a while ... came today specifically to read about y'all dating ... I'm venturing out this week for the first time and wow! I'm really nervous ... I feel like I don't tknow the rules, etc.
Like, I'm meeting this one guy I've met on myspace.com (free site good for lots of things including dating ... I have found a lot of my local match.com guys are also on myspace, saves me the money
). Then seeing this wonderful guy I actually met at a bar NYE and we hit it off really well ... good phone conversations since then ...
But I just don't even know like, what the "rules" are, yk?
I also know for a fact that having three kids puts people off ... they don't get it. Um, hello? My kids aren't even going to know you exist unless things get serious ... But for example, the work friend of a friend of mine said, "Who is she? She's really cute!" and she said, "Oh, yeah, she's divorced, three kids ... "He cut her off. "Oh. Kids. Never mind." Gah.
The thing about eharmony is THEY match you up only with certain people, and the fees are high -- people on eharmony generally are looking to get married ... match is less expensive and you browse profiles and pick what works for you ... I dunno.
So what are the rules? Generally, I mean? Like, of dating? I've been in serious relationships only since I was about 16.
I'm really looking forward to NOT getting serious, but don't know how???