|I use the term GD when i talk about it on forums but in real life I'm not a fan of the word discipline. If you're disciplined you're controlled and theres no room for control in my relationship with my child.
Discipline means "to Disciple" or "to teach" (but I understand thats not what most mainstream parents use it as.)
I belive that you do need to control your childrens boundrys.
I also think that the best way to teach is to act out the way you want them to act. I have found that my little ones are like little mirrors of me.
And its so hard to "act right" all the time.