TTC a baby AND a new lifestyle?

[AnnR33]

This is the first month we were trying to TTC and we weren't successful, but that's OK. I realized that TTC a baby is just part of the equation for me right now. I've been a SAHM (2 kids) for about 2 yrs and the control I have over my house has been dwindling, it's less organized, messy, and I'm not even comfortable in it sometimes.
SOOO... I realized I have to conceive a new lifestyle or philosophy. My main concerns are housekeeping and cooking. (the flylady is not for me) So I'm working on some ideas to get more organized (baby steps) and feel better about taking care of my home.
I have a few ideas, but any others would be welcome. So far I'm just trying to work on one big task a day (bathrms on Monday, floors on Tues, etc)
I realized all this about the same time AF came so I wouldn't be a bit surprised if we were more successful in the next month or 2.
Just wanted to share my revelation since I'm sure some others can relate.
Happy vibes
Ann

[Beth-TX]

One thing that really helped me organize my life was making a menu every week. We generally write the menu on Sunday afternoon then do the grocery shopping for the week. It's such a huge load off my mind already knowing what I'm going to cook every night.

Another thing that's helped lately is *not* cleaning dd's room. I used to clean in there several times a day and it's just pointless. All her toys are in there and she delights in pulling them all out as soon as I put them away. I find I get a lot more done if I just ignore the more pointless tasks.

Good luck to you. Sounds like you've got a good attitude! I'm sure things will work out great.

peace, Beth

[naturegirl]

I know what you mean. I am in the tww period and am planning an overhaul or a couple of rooms this weekend. One, it will help me keep my mind off of "am I, am I not, ..." Two, I will feel so much peace when this is done. It has been nagging at me for a couple of months now...

The menu idea is wonderful, thanks! I am going to sit down and look at that today also. I am excited to finally get started. YAH!