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After reading this thread:
http://mothering.com/discussions/sho...d.php?t=402062
and the article linked in the thread "The Trouble with Boys," I've been thinking about what would be the best school environment for boys to learn in. My ds is a stereotypical boy--very active, very physical, very self-sufficient, and I'm already worried (he's not even 2). Any thoughts on what type of school works best for boys?
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Originally Posted by ChasingPeace
After reading this thread:
http://mothering.com/discussions/sho...d.php?t=402062
and the article linked in the thread "The Trouble with Boys," I've been thinking about what would be the best school environment for boys to learn in. My ds is a stereotypical boy--very active, very physical, very self-sufficient, and I'm already worried (he's not even 2). Any thoughts on what type of school works best for boys?
Homeschooling would be a great option, if you can make it work for your family. I'd homeschool even if I had girls, but I am very aware of the extra benefit it offers boys, especially active ones like ours!
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I haven't gotten through the whole article yet, but I do feel there is something to be said for creating environments that work for boys. I have a very active boy here too and it has been a hot topic in this house. (I also have 2 girls).

oops, baby calling! more later.
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Perhaps a single-sex school, if you can find one.
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Originally Posted by briansmama
Homeschooling would be a great option, if you can make it work for your family. I'd homeschool even if I had girls, but I am very aware of the extra benefit it offers boys, especially active ones like ours!
I appreciate that you have found a way to make things work for your family. But the op asked for a type of school. Please be considerate of those who choose to send their kids to school.

To the op: I haven't had much experience with private schools, but from what I understand, boys thrive in schools where they can be 'hands on'. Little things, like allowing the boys to stand while they complete assignments as opposed to sitting still on their bottoms. Even boy only classrooms are great for older boys.

I have been fortunate so far with the teachers we've gotten. They have been very educated about children in general and their need to be treated with respect. I've even gone in at the beginning of the year and given books to teachers. When my dd had a hard time with a group of girls, I gave the teacher Odd Girl Out. I've also let teachers borrow that book and Raising Cain.
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Perhaps a single-sex school, if you can find one.
I haven't read much on this for the last five years or so, but I thought there was research showing girls benefitted from single sex schools whereas boys' benefitted most in a co-ed environment. Is this no longer considered to be the case?

Most of what I've read recently on the "war" on boys blames the feminization of the classroom (and feminists of course) for boy's declining performace relative to girls, but I've seen very little discussion in the mainstream of the effects on boys' (as a group) performance of such things as:

* NCLB and its side effects (early push for academics, high pressure standardized testing, fewer opportunities for exercise when recess cut, fewer opportunities to manipulate real objects, etc.). With the push for early academics, boys get labeled as slow when they are often just not quite developmentally ready for the task demanded of them.

* sports worship (just how many 24 hour sports stations are there?)

* open anti-intellectual views on the part of many boys, especially in minority populations (i.e. it's not cool to do well in school)

* the push to diagnose and treat behavioral related syndromes

Back to the OP. I don't think there's any one kind of school that's best for boys any more than there would be one for girls. However, all else being equal, I would stay away from any push toward earlier academics, and I'd want there to be frequent breaks and plenty of opportunity for physical release. If the child were going to preschool, I'd choose one that was play based (Waldorf) or Montessori, depending on the child.
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I had found a school for ds that sounded great but didn't work out at at the classroom level. The teacher was the mother of girls. The class had 7 girls and 4 boys. The teacher labeled the class as quiet and crafty (not the ds I know and love) and planned on catering to this. Unfortunately, this was nothing that I could determine before school started. Another problem we ran into was that there was no opportunity for ds to get to know the teacher before hand. There was a meet the teacher/see the classroom night but it was not possible for the children to make a connection with the teacher since her attention was taken over by parents asking questions. Basically, ds ended up not liking his teacher, who was very controlling, and refusing to be left with her. I would think that a school with a higher ratio of male teachers would be better for boys. Going through school myself, I noticed how different male teachers were and can appreciate that they might make an atmosphere more comfortable for boys. I think an all-boys school could be a good choice as well. The most important thing is simply having any teacher that your ds can like (mine is highly discriminating about who he is willing to have a relationship with).
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