Oh Amy I'm so sorry. Well, let me tell you my experiences with my DS1. He was a horrible horrible refluxer. I was always soaked in spit-up, my hair, my rugs, everything. I remember the doc initially telling me it was a GI virus (at 4 weeks). Not. He wound up aspirating while nursing one morning and after an Upper GI/barium swallow was dx'd with reflux. We did Zantac then eventually added Reglan to it. My doc convinced me he needed to thicken BM if I wanted to keep nursing. I pumped and pumped and tried to thicken and the mess started!!! (I feel like I should label this post "the list of what not to do"...

: ) Eventually I couldn't pump anymore for daily feedings and thickenings. So under my doc's advisement I started supplementing with hypoallergenic formula and thickening that. Now my DS was the gassiest little guy I had ever encountered and as a new mom I followed everything my pedi told me to a T. But the pedi never gave us a referral to GI doc so eventually out of disgust at 10 mos I sought out a GI doc. My son literally seemed to never sleep. We had to prop him up to sleep so the most successful trick for us was to have him sleep in his carseat. We did that for the first 4 months of his life. Oh, the GI doc...she switched us over to Good Start formula, I still haven't figured that one out. At 15 mos he was still gassy and spitting... a lot. New GI doc. This doc wanted to do a scope and also felt like he was stool holding (he was-- thank you to thickening formula so early on in his life he was having constipation issues). So we had to start something for constipation. By this point he was off formula but on soy milk. We did 2 weeks of whole milk before the test and he was red, raw, bleeding from profuse diarrhea with the whole milk. The scope biopsy was + for casein allergy (the protein in milk). Back to casein free diet. And life improved...
Ok, child #2. Some colic... nothing special. BF baby.
This baby. Same thing.. aspirated the week before Xmas. Reflux. New doc said "don't stop breastfeeding, it's the best thing for him because it's more protein than anything else and it doesn't have all the crap even hypoallergenic formulas have in them" (I love that he said *crap*

) but if we needed to use Neutramigen hypoallergenic formula thickened with a tsp of rice cereal. Ugh.... what mess when we tried that. I kept thinking "Oh no... here we go again." Soooo this is what we did -- kept nursing, elevated the head of his crib, slept in his carseat if he was especially spitty and instead of Zantac, give him Mylanta twice a day and Mylicon as needed. he still spits but not nearly as much at 13 weeks. As their muscles get stronger in their upper chest... they reflux will improve. It's hard to do belly time with a refluxer but I really think it's necessary to help with improving the muscle development and with gas! I did NOT do belly time a lot iwth DS1 and as a result he was a late crawler. Oh... and if Blake is anything like DS1 I'm expected the spitting which has slightly improved to get worse with teething... Oh and I def cut out DAIRY... big culprit here and soy!
I never found a homeopathic remedy for reflux per se. I think the best thing you can do is to burp her frequently (at least twice a feed) have her sit up for 45 min after. I used Hyland's colic tabs for colic which seemed to work well and the Hyland's teething tabs for teething.
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