streetkitty, I am glad you got the results you were looking for.
MPJJJ, I PM'd you hours ago (ie, before your second post) and if you want to continue having a conversation with me via PM, do so. Or start having the conversation, whatever.
A mama who says "I can't be pregnant now" may be thinking about abortion. IMO (and IME) it can be helpful to someone possibly facing an unwanted pregancy to know that she has support even if she doesn't want to continue the pregnancy. And other mamas here who might need to read those words can do so - not true with a PM.
Debate about abortion isn't permitted here. That said, it would have been perfectly fine (and appropriate) for anyone to post support of a BTDT variety regarding *keeping* an unwanted pregnancy. Apparently being snide and taking the thread off track and not bothering to answer my polite PM are more your style, however.