hey skrimpy--i'm from myrtle beach originally! definitely invest in some cod liver oil. i wish i had. i was taking 6 omega 3 fatty acid pills a day during my pregnancy for depression. i think that's one of the only reasons my twins turned out as well as they did based on what i ate while i was pregnant (that "healthy" diet of unsoaked whole grains and low fat foods--sigh).
i haven't had time to respond to this thread earlier (and i wish i could respond to a lot more than i get a chance to; dh is playing with the girls so i can type now)--but i wanted to say how much i appreciate you mamas sharing your stories. i felt like i was starving my babies with my breast milk (the low fat diet continued--i was following lll suggestions for losing weight while breastfeeding--i don't know where to go for accurate nutritional information!!!). ay 6 months, my ped suggested formula because they weren't gaining weight. i knew that was wrong, so i started pumping to supplement them (4 - 6 oz a day was all i coud get, split between them), and i started them on solids way before i thought they were ready, at 6 months. they were starving, and ate a lot. at least i pureed their fruits and veggies and fed them lots of yogurt (all organic). but i also gave them that stupid oatmeal baby flake cereal. i started trying to add good fats to my diet (candied almonds--sigh again). but i still wanted to lose weight--and to fast forward a bit, we all got desperately sick with strep for their first birthday when i was really trying to lose weight fast for their party (i was depressed and felt totally abandoned by family and friends--no one came to help with the girls like they'd promised, and i was alone most of the time with them--soi wanted to show off how well i'd done--i'm embarrassed about it now). we ended up on antibiotics, which somehow led me to the vaccinations forum, which led me here (trying to heal the damage i sense but isn't overt from giving these girls the first year of vaxes).
so, mama-a-llama--i just wanted to reply because i started feeling like "it was my fault" when my girls were six months. i was completely overwhelmed and frantic. i left my first pedi (still a good decision), talked to at least 6 lactation consultants (none of whom inquired into my diet, even tho i said i was dieting), and got early intervention involved, including a nutitionist on the team. they all said the girls were fine, just small. luckily i felt something was wrong, and after 9 months, i'm really making some progress. the girls were sick last week with a virus that devastated my dad and stepmom and fil, but the girls were happy through it all (dh and i didn't even get it). i still have giult, but now i have a better sense of why i feel guilty, and i can talk about it with dh. plus, reading nutrition and physical degeneration gave me serious hope that we can improve our health. i read a while back that it changed JaneS's llife, and honestly that's why i bought the book (my library didn't have it available for loan--i want to donate a copy). it's hard not to beat yourself up, but YOU DIDN"T KNOW. i didn't know. now i do, and i'm trying to tell as many people as i can (tho they think i'm crazy). but the food i make is winning converts. dh is even helping me throw away the crappy "food" we had in our house (and the guy does not like to waste anything, especially food).
sorry for the novel--i never get this long to think, and a lot of this is just gelling for me now. there should be a whole board for this sort of stuff--maybe we should start one

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to all you mamas!
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