or Connect
Mothering › Mothering Forums › Pregnancy and Birth › Birth and Beyond › Things that hurt worse than labor
New Posts  All Forums:Forum Nav:

Things that hurt worse than labor - Page 7

post #121 of 156
I once had a migraine attack and that is the only pain I have ever felt that came even close to the transition laborpain of my first birth.
Laborpain was so bad I thought they could just as well cut me open and take out that baby without anesthesia -and it would be less painful than labor. To this day I don't know if I was right on that one..
My second birth was never even close to being as painful as the first. NOwwhere near..
post #122 of 156
having a nerve touched during a root canal

having numbing meds injected in perineum before stitching immediately after delivery of baby

severely sprained wrist

all of those were pretty temporary and none were for the sole purpose of birthing a beautiful baby!
post #123 of 156
I don't know if this is just because it's the way I am, or if there's a correlation, but I drink Red Raspberry during pregnancy, and I've never had afterpains that were THAT bad. I remember after one of my DDs was born, the nurse saw I hadn't taken any of the pain meds I had been given. I seriously did not "get" what the big deal was... If I need one of those I'll take it!

I'm drinking RRL during this pregnancy too, just in case, and because it's good for me. Hopefully I'll continue the pattern of quick labor/mild afterpains.

Kathryn
post #124 of 156
Oooh, I wish it worked that way for me. I drank pregnancy tea like it was going out of style both pregnancies, mild afterpains after first baby and horrid afterpains after second baby.
post #125 of 156
I love this thread and have already answered but keep reading- just to see what all is said-- as for the Red raspberry-- everytime I drank it I bled more so stopped drinking it-- after pains i just don't remember much--

I don't think I put it on the worse pains list before but one thing that hurt worse for me was when I had a severe reaction to gluten and had diarrhea,and vomiting that lasted more than a month ......
post #126 of 156
I was so faithful to RRL and maybe they worked too good and shrunk my uterus super fast..that's why the pain was sooo bad...lol
post #127 of 156
RRL helps immensely with afterpains. IT's the mag/calcium factor. Both relax muscles and help with the pain. You need to brew it and infuse it properly to have it help though. Works for me! IT I miss a few days, I know it.
post #128 of 156
Quote:
Originally Posted by firefaery
RRL helps immensely with afterpains. IT's the mag/calcium factor. Both relax muscles and help with the pain. You need to brew it and infuse it properly to have it help though. Works for me! IT I miss a few days, I know it.
Oooh yes! Good point! If you're just letting a teabag sit in a teacup for 10-15 minutes, all you're getting is basically a nice warm cup of flavored water. Ideally, it should be COVERED to keep the good stuff from evaporating in the steam, and it should get a nice long steep of 2 hours minimum, overnight is better.

Speaking of which... I think it's time for another glass! Yummmmmm!

Kathryn
post #129 of 156
didn't read all the replies but the uti I got that turned into a kidney infection which then spread to my entire abdominal cavity.. that was unbelieveable. I seriously felt like my insides were going to explode. I laid on the couch crying for a week and I'm the kind of person who falls off a horse, breaks her ribs and gets up laughing.

Although the freakin 20 min contraction I had with the nurse yelling and grabbing my face cause I wasn't calm was pretty bad too.
post #130 of 156
my appendix rupturing was way worse than childbirth ... augh ... also the flu i had while pg was not very fun ... i remember that pain much more than my childbirth pain ...
post #131 of 156
The migraine I had today was worse than labor. But I agree with the PPer who said labor is not really "pain" but hard work. I found it to be intense, but purposeful and your body is so smart about that you get so many natural endorphins, you're not really there. And afterwards, the "I am woman" high is just amazing.
You don't get that from anything else in the world and I would have ten more babies if I could. In fact, I just might if I'm lucky.
post #132 of 156
I also think that afterpains are much worse than labor. I suffered after ds1, motrin did not help. After I had ds2 I took motrin plus tylenol#3 and that helped a lot. I do labor unmedicated, but give me the drugs after.
post #133 of 156
rubbing your eye after cutting jalepenos.
post #134 of 156
My labors were hard work and painful!

Gallstones WAY more painful!

Infected gallbladder - holy mother of all that is good and holy I am so glad that thing is gone because if that EVER happened again I think I would ram my head into a cement table to knock myself and dh would be forewarned that if he saw that to rush me to a hospital and don't let them revive me until I am so drugged I don't know what country I live in! Whew!
post #135 of 156
You know, I have not gone through labor. I did go through a crash c/s due to a placental abruption, so I will say two things more painful than that:

My tonsilectomy at 28. Ouch. Big time.

Rupturing ovarian cysts. Ouch ouch and ouch.

Oh here's one more: Methotrexate shots for my ectopic pregnancy. Ouch ouch.
post #136 of 156
I've had only one labor (no vaginal delivery) but in being able to compare 17 hours of unmedicated high-intervention labor to other painful events in my life here is my experience of those that were equivalent or worse than labor:

Kidney infection, w/ bladder spasming to void every 2-3 min - instinctively laid in a hot bath and rode the waves of pain til the antibiotic began to kick in. Hated it but didn't feel fear, stayed calm. Was alone.

Migraines - close to the level of labor pain at times, deal with it stoically and seek to be alone.

Yet ever since my labor I've said it was the worst pain I've ever felt - not really true - what made it the worst was that I was afraid.

this thread was a good exercise - examining my worst pains and how I managed the experience shows me that I need not be frightened of severe pain, I've dealt with it many times and made it through. I'm starting to see how I deal with pain best, hopefully can apply that knowledge to labor next time.
post #137 of 156
Quote:
Originally Posted by velcromom
Yet ever since my labor I've said it was the worst pain I've ever felt - not really true - what made it the worst was that I was afraid.

this thread was a good exercise - examining my worst pains and how I managed the experience shows me that I need not be frightened of severe pain, I've dealt with it many times and made it through. I'm starting to see how I deal with pain best, hopefully can apply that knowledge to labor next time.
post #138 of 156
Getting nail polish remover in your eye
Unmedicated wisdom tooth extraction
Recovery from a c-section!!!!!
Lying flat on your back during labour. I was on my back for 10 minutes while they ran me up for a c/s and I was SCREAMING for them to put me out. Those 10 minutes were worse than the 44 hours natural labour I had with my first child. Hands down. Hospital births are WAY more painful. Way, way, way.

IMHO, food poisoning that causes terrible diarreah is way worse. Those cramps are BRUTAL and they lead to nothing but s#!t. At least at the end of labour you have a baby.
post #139 of 156
I really can't think of much that hurt worse than 38 hours of back labor (four hours of pushing), except the nerve in my left leg that, about 34 hours into it, started hurting from my inner thigh to my kneecap. I think my son was pressed into it, and the nurse kept pushing her finger into the very epicenter of the pain while she tried to turn him (she eventually did). That nerve pain was horrible. I didn't care about the crowning or episiotomy or the contractions -- just that grinding, crushing pain in my leg. I've never screamed and cried in pain in my life before, but I did then. (I did request an epidural when that pain began, but the nurses refused and told me that I wouldn't be able to push.)
post #140 of 156
My 1st root canal was worse (my 2nd rc was a breeze!)
Cluster headaches/migraines
Spliting my head open
Two months of a horrendous colitis flare

I have always been sickly and have developed quite the high pain threshold. My (unmedicated) back labor was painful and long but I enjoyed the process so much that the pain wasn't all that noticeable. The actually pushing was 100% pain free and probably the coolest experience of my life!
New Posts  All Forums:Forum Nav:
  Return Home
  Back to Forum: Birth and Beyond
Mothering › Mothering Forums › Pregnancy and Birth › Birth and Beyond › Things that hurt worse than labor