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when I was young i always had such vivid dreams, some where euphoric (sp?), some were terrifying. I didnt have a chance to discuss these with anyone but always would re-hash them over and over...I still remember some of my first dreams. i just dont remember the ages i was when i had them. I still have very vivid dreams, and talk about them with dh and dd usually every day. I also ask my dd (3) about her dreams, even though i think she is too young or cant fully understand what i mean.

I tell her they are pictures she sees when she is sleeping, like movies that play when she is in bed. I wonder if thats the best way to describe it? she is an avid sleeper (usually 9-11 hours at night in addition to a daily nap of 3-4 hours) and when she gets up I ask her if she remembers her dreams....she usually says she dreamt about 'gandolf riding his horse across the hills' because that is the bedtime story i used to tell her all the time.

at what age do your children start talking about their dreams (and i dont mean 'night terrors' but story-like dreams) and how did you encourage these discussions?

I have had 'promonition' type dreams and while i dont believe in the supernatural, i do think dreams are a powerful way to understand your psyche and fears, etc. they are your minds way to hash out issues and images from day to day, IMO....and I really love the creativity of dreams and cant wait to share this with my kids (and hear about their dreams)

I also think it will be a great way to breed creative and imaginative thought in my dd, who seems to like to make up stories and hear stories, but mostly sticks to common themes....thanks to gramma who does fairy tale 'pretend play' with her at their weekly visit.
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My DD started talking on her own about her dreams just a couple months before turning 4. She's almost 5 now, and almost every morning wakes up and immediatley starts talking about her dreams.
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I had a different experience with this growing up. My mom always encouraged me to talk about my dreams, from a very young age. She talked about hers, too. I feel like this made me have more and more dreams. In college I started keeping a dream journal, and then my dreams started intefering with my daily life. I came to a point where I just stopped thinking about my dreams. If I started to think about them, I stopped myself. Now, I rarely remember a dream and I like it that way.

So, I wouldn't discourage my Dd from talking about a dream if she wanted to, but I doubt I'll ever encourage it the way that my mom did.
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My DD is almost 4, and has the occasional nightmare. Talking about them doesn't seem to go anywhere much. This morning she told me she had a dream about monsters who were big and furry with long red noses and they were chasing her. For the first time, I suggested that she might try to change a dream if its not going a way she wants to - like making friends with the monster, or pulling off their red noses, or riding on them. We both got into fits of giggles. I was trying to remind her that dreams are in her imagination, and she has power over that.

Where the Wild Things Are is great book that focuses on how we can "own" our own demons, and turn them around.
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