DD Molested Yesterday - Page 5

[mesecina]

Just wanted to echo that your reaction is is the bright sspot in a bad situation. I am hoping for the best possible resolution for you and your family.

[MamaHippo]

Hugs to you and DD

I am so sorry to hear about your DD's experience . You are so strong and smart to think as quickly as you did, and get your little girl the help she needs so fast. You are doing everything right and I commend you. I will pray for strength for you and fast healing for your little girl's spirit. :
I hope the boy that did this gets some serious help, and is punished accordingly.
Lisa

[Khadijah]

Momma i feel your pain. I have never had this happen to me or my kids and hope to god it never does. All i can offer if my prayers,i will keep your family in my prayers.All i can say is that you should always know were your kids are at all times and i know that that is not enough. I have a 10 month old and 8year old. I never let my youngest go anywhere with out me, ever if its just over to his nana's house(grandma) i dont let him be around noone alone. If he is with anyone i tell my husband to stay there and not to walk off. Because these days you have to be careful cause you cant even tell about relatives. I dont plan on letting my 10month old go any were unless he can talk so he can tell me what has happen to him or so on .Even with my 9year old. I always ask what has happened, and wont let him stay the nightwith anyone,
Momma you did the right thing and i hope you press charges against this boy. He needs to get some help before its too late.

[curlyfry]

to you and your brave little girl.

You are handling this amazingly! It must be so hard not to call dh and tell him, but now I understand why you are withholding the information for the time being. It's better to catch him off guard.

If you are able to, please keep us updated.

[fremontmama]

Mama I am so sorry that happened. I agree with the other posts in saying good for you for immediately taking action and coming to the defense of your dd!

I am thinking good thoughts of support and strength and healing for you and dd and dh.

Let us know what happens. Obviously that boy needs some help!:

[Kavita]

I am so sorry this happenned to you and your DD and family. It sounds like you're handling it in the perfect way. Your DD is very lucky that you are there advocating for her. And your DH is lucky to have a wife that is keeping the home fires burning and handling things so well in his absence.

I also noticed from your signature that you are pregnant? Somehow that made me feel especially bad that you have to go through this during this time.

One little thing i wanted to add to what a previous poster said about the district attorney deciding whether to file-- I worked as a juvenile probation officer and so had a lot of dealings with the system, and I would encourage you to communicate directly with the district attorney's office and raise hell and insist that the case be prosecuted. In my experience, they really do listen to victims if they are vocal and it makes a difference in what the outcome might be. (And legally you are the "victim" since you are the legal representative of a minor child.)

Hugs to you and your DD!!

[Blue Dragonfly]

Thinking good thoughts for you and your baby girl

R

[Greensleeves]

Oh God, I wanted to cry reading this. I am so sorry for your sweet little girl, and for you. I see that you are pregnant, and your dh is deployed too.......I can't imagine being in your situation right now. Huge hugs to you.

I wanted to say, like everyone else, that I am so impressed with you as a mama. You listened to your intuition and did everything absolutely right. I think it will be important for both you AND her to know in the future, that this is not your faults. HE is 100% in the wrong.

The most important thing I think will be not to let it define her. Always, always it should be emphasized that there was something wrong with this boy, not her. You tell her that she is good, wonderful and amazing, always.

Please take care of yourself, mama.

[Trinitty]

I must commend you for your clear-headedness on this!

My stomach sank when I read your story and my thoughts are with you. I can’t imagine something like this.

You are going about this the right way. You really seem to have it well thought out.

That young man needs to spend time in jail.

Be Strong!

[melinoz]

I'm so sorry that you and your dd are going through this. I just wanted to echo the pp's in saying that you handled the situation perfectly. You're doing such a good job of taking care of your little one.

[bobica]

i'm so sorry you & dd are going through this! you're a strong mama!!!

[seren]

Oh mama, Hugs! You are living my worst nightmare. I am so sorry you and your dd are going through this.

[warrior mama]

I am so sorry to hear about this. Be gentle with yourself. I am thinking and praying for you and your family.

[Emmama]

Oh my gosh, the boys mother is the FRG leader?!?! This is bad. I can see why you have waited to tell DH. My heart goes out to you and your daughter, and your DH.

[saritasmile]

Mama, big hugs to you and your dd! I just think you are handling it so wonderfully and calmly!. Having gone thru something similar as a child, and then watching my dad literally almost kill my brother was aweful. I don't know which was the more damaging thing. You are such a great mama! hugs again!

[abclan]

Oh! Your story hurts my heart. I am so sorry to hear it.

Peace to you and your sweet precious girl.

[Proudly AP]

my heart goes out to you and your dd.

please do let us know how the interview went. i hope they have someone very skilled at interviewing children do it.

[KegJeg]

Wow, I just don't know what to say other than I am so deeply sorry. I hope your DD will be ok.

[mamaley]

Oh God, I am so sorry this happened. It sounds like you are doing a wonderful job in this situation. She's so lucky to have you...and I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you as a mother. How did the interview go? I am so, so sorry...I'm putting out lots of prayers for peace and strength to you and your dd.

There's so many people here who were molested as children. I was one of them. I am so sorry mamas that we had to go through that. These things should never happen.

[**guest**]

Nicole- It makes me so sick that this has happened to your daughter.
I hope the interview wasn't traumatic or too difficult for your dd.

You're a wonderful mom to have acted immediately.

How does your daughter seem to be handling this? Has she tried talking about it (other than the interview)?

I was molested as a child but not that young. My mom did not believe me.
I'm so glad you thought so quickly. Well done, mama.

Hugs to you and dd.
Liz