So do you ask all your partners if its OK if you get another additional partner? Do they have to interview the new person?
I've had a bf for several months now and dh has been wanting to find a gf as well. My bf and I are on a bit of a break as he's met a vanilla gal and wanting to see where it heads. I'm happy for him and hope it works out well! We still talk a lot, just aren't dating. Anyway, my dh made it quite clear that he has been looking for a gf and I approve. He'd actually not been actively meeting anyone for a couple of months but just recently began to cultivate a relationship with a women whom I introduced him to.
The whole process has gone something like this. She and I met via some mutual friends and went out a few times with the gals. We ended up seated at the same table and her and her husband at a wine tasting recently and dh and her really hit it off. The four of us went for coffee after the tasting. Since then they've (she and dh) been talking a lot. She and I chat from time to time and she is evidently very interested in both of us. She and I were to have our first real date on Friday and I got a stomach bug Anyway, as you can see, there's one person missing from this..her dh.
So...Last night they came over for dinner and brought their 2yo. It was intended as a way for her dh to be more comfortable with us and to meet in a family setting. In the end, it was a grand evening (despite my ds's sudden onset of a stomach bug mid-dinner ). Her dh is comfortable and I actually found myself quite enamoured with him as well!
Could this possibly be the start of a potential quad?!?!?! Rather exciting to find another couple and have all four of us click. As many of you probably know, that's a hard deal to find!
Kinda veered off topic there but I'm rather excited!