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i love BF my DD of 7 mo and plan to let her self-wean. but lately she is driving me crazy - espec at night.

she won't open her mouth wide so ends up nipple sucking. i usually have to sit up, turn yhe light on, tell her to open wide (which she understands - so cute!) and then it's a race to put her on b4 she quickly goes back to little fishy lips. then, if latched correctly, she will pull a bit so it's only the nipple she has again. so i have to fix her a lot and get a bit sore - which is minor to me.

what i can't handle are the hormones. maybe this is really odd, but instead of the relaxed, happy nursing feelings, i feel like i'm going to go crazy. like there is some crazy drug rushing thru my veins that makes me want to jump out of my skin and scream and run - an immensely restless feeling. it's awful!!

anyone else experience this?? it's really awful!!
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First, ! Not a lot of advice, but more of a BTDT kind of thing. My dd went through something like that when she was around 8-10 months. What I found out was that when she slid down on the nipple she was working on controlling my let down better - like she wanted it less fast than it was. She eventually out grew it, so yours probably will too! Also, about the crazy feelings running through your veins - For the first six months of nursing, I HATED it! I was so stressed that I wasn't doing it right, etc. It just took that long for she and I to "click," though. Now we're fine, and I'm so glad that I just refused to quit. BUT, if this has just started for you, I'm pretty sure that's not what's causing it. Are you getting enough water? For me and several of the women on this board, we start getting that crazy, skin crawling, get this kid off me now! feeling when we haven't had enough water. Try drinking throughout nursing, maybe?? Anyway, like I said, not a whole lot of advice, just sympathy and "this too shall pass!" You are giving your dd the best gift she will ever have!
post #4 of 8
My DD had an incorrect latch because of an oversupply of my milk. Like the PP, it was her way of controlling the milk flow. It started becoming painful about the same time you're DD is hurting you. When her top teeth came in, my nipples were getting cut. Now that's when I realized things absolutely couldn't continue like that!! I began taking her off the nipple EVERY SINGLE time she took only the end. I would start over with having her open wide. I think repetition is the key. She had been in the habit of nursing this way for so many months. I was afraid she would never get the habit of nursing another way, but she did... and much faster than I could have imagined.

Good luck,
post #5 of 8
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thanks for the advice - I hadn't thought of more water, but that might be it as I have noticed I"ve been not drinking as much during the day and then really thirsty at night lately.
post #6 of 8
Can I just tell you, that reading your post made me get that wierd feeling in my stomach where I to want to run screaming from the room! So I can understand how your feeling. UGH!

I definately relate that feeling to hormones, but the strange latch makes me think that she has something going on too. Could she be getting more teeth? Or perhaps when she does this, she really isn't interested in the actual milk, but just nursing for comfort, so changing her latch that way?

At about 9 months, my dh and I usually changed positions in the bed. Dh would take the baby and put him on the other side, away from me. The baby woke up less, and nursed less, and nursed well when he did. For some reason reason not having my breasts right there seemed less stimulating for them.

Even if you can't figure out exactly what is going on, it will probably pass soon. I've noticed that just when I think I can't take something with breastfeeding one more day, it stops! Good luck!
post #7 of 8
Have you checked out http://www.kellymom.com to see if there are any tips on there that might help you?
post #8 of 8
Could it be anxiety? Here's one link with a bit of advice:

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/...ed&msg=61221.8
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