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post #1 of 25
3/1/06 at 6:38pm
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My best friend and Charlie's godmother has always been anti circ on principle (even moreso than me I think, even though I got her into it) but she has never had personal experience.
She has an English boyfriend now and last night she thanked me on behalf of any and all of Charlie's future partners for not circumcising him! I thought it was funny, even though it was a bit odd to think of it in that respect!
Hope it works out with this guy, because she said she could never go back!
post #2 of 25
3/2/06 at 1:22am
Lucky ducks.
post #3 of 25
3/2/06 at 3:56pm
lucky ducks indeed.... i'm all jealous
post #4 of 25
3/2/06 at 10:17pm

Heh heh heh...

Just surfing around b/c my ds's doc partially retracted him today (AUUUGGGHH!) and you all motivated me to my first post! (I've been lurking for some weeks/months now...)

I think it was on the third date with dh that I popped the all-important question: Are you circumcised? He wasn't, and we lived happily ever after!!!! (Except that we have a 19 month old and another baby on the way, so the foreskin doesn't see much action these days...

Haven't figure out that sig thing... let's see

dflanag2: ds 8/04 BF, CD, NOCIRC, cosleeping, expecting again 8/06!
post #5 of 25
3/2/06 at 10:39pm
I've never been with an intact man as my S2BX is circ'd. I'm going to check out the link...
post #6 of 25
3/2/06 at 11:37pm
Hey, I am jealous too...DH is loosely circ'd here (I hear that is more comfy at least as he does have a lot of mobile skin) but we are starting in the restoration process...so, he might never be intact but it may get to the point where I have nearly the same thing. Now begs the question...any women who have been with someone who has "restored" a foreskin?
post #7 of 25
3/2/06 at 11:49pm
It's always encouraging to read things like that, especially after spending some time on mainstream boards. (Waiting on the MDC server, ya know!)

I've never experienced it myself but my DIL will.
post #8 of 25
3/3/06 at 12:53am
if you want intact, y'all gotta go for the forigners! My dh is from Ukraine, no circ there. Definatly better than them american boys.
post #9 of 25
3/4/06 at 10:39pm
LOL I CANNOT wait to thank my soon-to-be MIL for keeping my future hubby intact! (can't say anything about sex to her until after the ink is dry on the marriage papers--she's really really conservative)
All those probs that i had with relations with previous male partners were NOT because of me, (Oh THE JOY!!!) but because of the parents and doctors that Circ'd previous partners.

this was also one of my main reasons for not circ'ing my son, so that his bedroom life would be more pleasurable for him--i just never thought that it would make things better for his future partner (But i have to say, as a mom, that is really ookie feeling about thinking that someday my kid will grow up and have EEK!...sex)
post #10 of 25
3/4/06 at 11:57pm
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Originally Posted by Lizzardbits
LOL I CANNOT wait to thank my soon-to-be MIL for keeping my future hubby intact! (can't say anything about sex to her until after the ink is dry on the marriage papers--she's really really conservative)
All those probs that i had with relations with previous male partners were NOT because of me, (Oh THE JOY!!!) but because of the parents and doctors that Circ'd previous partners.

this was also one of my main reasons for not circ'ing my son, so that his bedroom life would be more pleasurable for him--i just never thought that it would make things better for his future partner (But i have to say, as a mom, that is really ookie feeling about thinking that someday my kid will grow up and have EEK!...sex)
Yeah, I know the "ookie" feeling because my sons are grown now! Your future is my present! My ds' girlfriend told me that he was great in bed, and I'm thinking, I don't really want to know!
post #11 of 25
3/5/06 at 1:48am
I just about fell off my chair laughing so hard at your post, njeb!!
post #12 of 25
3/5/06 at 11:53am
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Originally Posted by Lizzardbits
I just about fell off my chair laughing so hard at your post, njeb!!
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post #13 of 25
3/5/06 at 11:54am
ditto Quirky
post #14 of 25
3/5/06 at 11:55am
ditto Quirky
post #15 of 25
3/6/06 at 8:09pm
"Turning to silk inside her"
from "Horse Heaven"
by Jane Smiley
Suddenly, and very lightly, he touched her labia so that she cried out, and as she was crying out, he penetrated her, kindly but firmly, threw back his head, and closed his own eyes, seeming to pull her over himself as easily as a glove.

He penetrated her to the core, didn't he? He knew just how to do that, the way a racehorse knew how to find the finish line: wherever he penetrated her to, that was the core, and she felt it. He eased her gently back and forth a time or two, and it wasn't so confortable just then, but right when she was going to say something, she got a wonderful feeling of moisture flooding her, and his penis turning to silk inside her.
She said "What was that?"
and he said," sometimes it takes a moment or two for the foreskin to slide back"
"You have a foreskin?"
"I do indeed. I was born in Britain when my father was training horses for some years."
"I'm sorry I didn't notice I was looking at your face".
He smiled.
But then there was no time for talking, only for probing more and more deeply into this feeling she was having through her body of melting around him as he went farther inside of her, he covered her face with his warm hands and made her go where he was inside her as she disapeared.
This wasn't about claiming, it was about investigating. >>
post #16 of 25
3/6/06 at 9:55pm
Wow baybee... I dunno if that post will be allowed to stay, but it is a lot like that. I'm getting upset here about it actually because although my current partner is intact, he will most likely not be my last, and those who are are far and few between.... *sigh*
post #17 of 25
3/6/06 at 10:29pm
Yeah....that's about right, too. My husband is circ but I've had a few that were not and that totally discribes it. What a gift for our future DIL's, huh?
post #18 of 25
3/6/06 at 10:40pm
My husband is my first intact partner. Surprising that I haven't met more! That puts him at .5% (one half of a percent) of all my sexual partners. Sad that so few men my age are intact.
post #19 of 25
3/6/06 at 10:41pm
I cut and pasted that off one of the restoring lists that I am on. The man who posted it made the comment at the end "I wish I'd been born in Britain". Sad, isn't it?
Baybee
post #20 of 25
3/7/06 at 7:35pm
I read some of this out loud to my fiance' as we were talking on the telephone today, and after a moment of silence and an audible gulp, he said, "Gee, aren't you glad that i was born in Britian." I giggled and said "Duh!" LOL

if it is ok, baybee, i would like to copy that and save it to my PC. He quite liked that, and...well...me too!
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