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How do you figure this stuff out? This sounds really familiar

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Originally Posted by ChristaN
The conclusions that I have come to in relation to my dd's slower processing in relation to her ability are:
1) She has some sensory integration issues. We also had her evaluated by an OT at the recommendation of the psych and the OT found that she was sensory over responsive, which basically means that she is bothered by and distracted by sensory input that would not bother others. For instance, she was yelling at her sister for breathing too loudly in the car the other day. The fluorescent lights, the noise of the pencil scratching at the desk next to her... it all bothers her and makes it hard for her to keep her focus and get the work done quickly.
2) She is bored/lacks interest in the work. She not only needs harder work, she needs work that is qualitatively different -- more in depth, etc. She is a very compliant child and will do what is expected of her whether she wants to or not, but if it isn't engaging, she does it slowly b/c it is so uninteresting to her.
3) She has an unusual processing method that is not well suited to the manner in which children are taught in a classroom setting. Dd tends to observe things, think about them until she is sure that she knows how to do them right, and then she does them correctly with no practice. She is very easily humiliated and hates to practice anything b/c she sees it as making mistakes and having people see her do things wrong.

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This seems so familiar to me with dd (also 7). How do you go about coming to these conclusions? We have "attention issues"--tried removing dairy and other stuff last year, inconclusive results, etc. I just don't see how the kids at school even eat lunch the cafeteria is SO rowdy ...
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Originally Posted by Bekka
This seems so familiar to me with dd (also 7). How do you go about coming to these conclusions? We have "attention issues"--tried removing dairy and other stuff last year, inconclusive results, etc. I just don't see how the kids at school even eat lunch the cafeteria is SO rowdy ...
Well, my father gave me a lot of grief about having an IQ test done on dd, but I wanted to know if I was fooling myself by thinking that dd was gifted. Doesn't every parent think that his/her child is bright?

In any case, I really came to the conclusions that I did just by going with the info that we have on dd's abilities and achievement (from the psych as well as school tests) as well as the weaknesses IDed by the OT and the psychologist in relation to speed. I also just trusted my mother's intuition. I have known dd her whole life and observed how her mind works and I have a pretty good feel for what is going on. The test results honestly just affirmed what I pretty much already knew (which is why my father felt that I was doing it just for bragging rights), but I read a great quote that helped me with that where a mom was saying that we don't identify gifted children so that we can admire them, but so that we can help them. Dd is as different from the "average" child as is a child with an IQ in the bottom 1-2% of the population. She needs accommodations not just in what she is taught, but how she is taught as much as a developmentally disabled child does.

The school has been more willing to work with me now that I can show them actual test scores. If you feel that your dd is gifted as well, I would strongly recommend reading Empowering Gifted Minds: Educational Advocacy that Works and Misdiagnosis and dual diagnosis of gifted children and adults. These books have been helpful for me in identifying better ways to meet dd's needs (and also like personal therapy -- that's what was wrong with me as a kid !). I am finding that teachers and schools are much better trained on how to deal with children who are struggling academically and often miss children who are bright enough to compensate for their weaknesses. My child just doesn't feel like as much of a priority b/c she isn't going to hurt their test scores even if they do absolutely nothing for her.

eta: if you are primarily worried about attention issues and believe that the sensory over responsiveness that I mention may be what is going on, you will probably need to have her evaluated by a pediatric occupational therapist to check for Sensory Integration/Processing Disorder (SID). The Out of Sync Child is a good book on the problem.
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