We're waiting, but we'll tell them before we make it generally known. My first appointment is April 5, and I think SpaceMan will remember midwife appointments from the last pregnancy, so I'll either have to make up a good cover story, or let him in on it. I thought about telling him that we were going to a special place for ladies to make sure that they are healthy, and since women have babies, that's why there are so many pics of them... and people talking about babies... but I didn't feel right about that. I was worried that the app't would be sooner, but I think by April we can maybe tell him, but ask him not to tell the whole world (which he does with *every* piece of news. When we told him we were moving, if anyone would so much as say hi to him at the library or on the street or at the store, he would say "Hi, we're moving to Toronto, my dad has a new job, so we're packing everything up, he's driving back and forth to Toronto right now and we're looking for an apartment there to move into as soon as possible....
He had been asking for a baby sister before Cuddlemonster was conceived, and so he was excited to hear I was pg. (And now, he thinks I build to suit.) He has talked about having another baby sister for a while, and the other day when we were at the mall, we were talking about babies, for some reason (I think we saw a pg lady). He told CatKing that he thought that I would have another baby sometime because I've only had three.
And Cuddlemonster noticed EVERY baby we passed (while she was awake) and started at them and said "be-be". It's funny how they seem to know (or maybe I'm just more sensitive to it