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Hi guys. Hope everything is going well with you all. Today you guys are my refuge. I swear you are the only people I can talk to sometimes.

Dharma turns 18 months on Wed., and she's still going strong. She's sung the Alphabet song for fun for months now, and she has finally got the pronounciation of everything except for "W" down pretty darn well. She can also count fairly clearly up to 10 in English and Spanish, and says colors in both languages as well. She's back to saying and signing everything she used to say and more-- even Grandfather and Grandmother. And the sentences are coming at me from right and left. "What is that?" "How did you do that?" "Give me the broom." "I got it." "How are you doing?" "I hafta wait." "I love daddy. I love Grandmother. And I love you." I don't even bother to write down new words and sentences anymore. (Hope that doesn't make me a lazy momma.) She's into pretend play, but she's also much more outgoing and loving. She asks for "huggggs," And she gives hugs and kisses to us and all of her animal plush toys. She's never afraid if I have to leave her with anyone....she just chat's them up! And to think I once thought this kid was autistic! LOL! Last but not least, her dad is introducing her to French. She's picking it up faster than she picked up Spanish.

On the other hand, DD had her 18 month check-up on Friday. She's 17 pds, 10 oz, which means she's still at the zero percentile in weight, although she's at the 25th percentile in height and head circumference. On top of that, she's been blinking for a year, so after months and months of wait and see with the old ped-- the new ped said it's time she see a gastro and a neurologist to make sure these aren't signs of something more serious.

So that's what's up in our neck of the woods. 18 months is turning out to be an interesting landmark around here. Can't wait to see what the next half of the year will bring!

Faith
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I'm new here, well to this thread, but my daughter Janelle is 3 1/2. She had a sleep study done in october (when she first turned 3) due to severe sleep apnea, part of it involved neuropsychological testing and an IQ test. At this point they said she had the average intelligence equal to a 5 year old. So, we did the repeat sleep study (after her tonsilectomy in October) a week ago and now she is at the intelligence level of an 8 year old. In the past 5 months she has taught herself how to read very well and how to add and subtract single digit numbers...we are just baffled.

Also, she seems to have a form of ADHD...but nothing we, her dad and I, have any problems with, she is just kind of crazy sometimes. She also has OCD that gives us a lot of struggles. I'm just not sure what to do with her! To top it all off she is amazingly tiny, 28lbs and 37 inches at nearly 4 years old (she will be 4 in september)... She will be started headstart this fall, but not cause she needs headstart, just cause her little brother will be in speech therapy, occupational therapy, and an early intervention group session and she tagged along this year to that but we all think Caid will learn/develop quicker if Janelle isn't there to answer all of his questions for him and such, so she needs to be somewhere else while he is in therapy. Anyway, like I said, I'm just at a loss on what to do here...
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Wow, Cinder- it sounds like whatever you have been doing is working fine for Janelle. You may have some hard choices to make in the future- about wether to homeschool or skip grades or other things like that- but you don't have to do any of it this week. If it were me, I would look for another alternative to headstart- Headstart might work out fine. But some gifted children are a really bad fit for programs like that that are teaching things way below their level- some kids are bored others have problems socializing with their peers. I would try to find a friend or grandparent who can keep her, if after going to headstart a few times you realize its a bad fit.

Faith- things sound super cool with you and your dd. Don't feel bad for not writing down all the new words- sometimes its just too much. I do wish looking back I had done better at making a few notes about when my dd knew certain things- I love finding where i wrote down when she knew shapes and colors and some of the cutest sentences she said.
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OK- I am starting a new thread this one has passed the 300 post count, and to me that makes it long enough.
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oops, going to the new thread...
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