It is such hard work being the type of mom you are (cooking natural food, using cloth diapers, being a SAHM)! I'm one of those too and now I can see that moms who take lots of "short cuts" (like using lots of convenience foods or disposable dipes) have it much easier. Sometimes I feel like I'm a glutton for punishment!
My health took a nosedive post-partum and I am still working on recovery. My 28 mo DD is a nurse-a-holic and can dehydrate me easily so I have to really be mindful in caring for myself physically and emotionally.
I can easily neglect myself b/c I was taught to be quite a caregiver at a very young age. But with a DD in my life now, I keep reminding myself how much she needs a healthy mom and how I wouldn't do her much good in the hospital. Also, I'm 41 and I really, really want to see her grow up and fulfill her dreams!
Good health to you! You're a good mom; be good to yourself too!