Originally Posted by gridley13
"In male babies the foreskin is lightly attached to the penis underneath it, much like the skin on an orange, and comes free over the course of the first few years of life."
This is as far as I got on that site... uh... sorry, but my ds's foreskin is not LIGHTLY attached!!! I certainly do not know HOW strongly it is attached because I have not tried to find out. But it is not lightly. How irritating.
I would agree with the previous posters that you should settle this before actually ttc- let him know for sure how serious you are about it.
that's as far as I got too... think more like fingernails to fingers rather that orange peel to orange... holy hotdogbuns (I wanted to say something far far stronger...), if it begins with THAT I can't even imagine what else it says. He needs to prove it's necessary. He also needs to prove why it's better for HIM to make that decision about SOMEONE ELSE'S penis than to let the OWNER OF THE PENIS make the decision when he's older and can have pain meds...
my dh is VERY VERY HAPPY (so am I ) that he has the whole penis. I would never have a child with a sneaky abuser (sorry, but that's what he sounds like in this case at least ) even if he did think he was doing the "right thing".
love and peace.