I could talk cloth All Day Long. Seriously.

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I could give you a dissertation on all types of diapers because I've tried all kinds.
(and really, if you want to get technical, the absolute cheapest route is to get birdseye flats -- but not the gerber kind... get good ones from diaperware or another quality site ... flats are one-size -- typically 28 x 28 I think? -- so they're good for all your babe's diapering days... and you can customize folds the way you want, they're snappi-able or pinnable of course, they wash up easily and dry in no time.... blah, blah, blah...
http://www.gumbush.com has some good stuff about flats and prefolds)
Anyway... if you're at all sewing inclined, they're actually really easy to make and it's fun

: ... really! Gosh.. I'd love for you to have success with cloth, because it's totally attainable!!! Let me know if you need anything at all... I have all kinds of dipes that I'm trying to get rid of (because I' making my own now and don't need nearly the amounts of fluff we have!)
Eventually, you'll figure out what you like and don't like. Me? I didn't like the Mother-Ease one-size diapers. At All. Now, I *LOVE* their air-flow covers, but didn't like the diapers.
I go on diapering style kicks that go along with the weather (and the saying in WY is, "If you don't like the weather, wait five minutes and it will change!")... so, basically I'm all over the place.
Right now I hate fleece. So I hate pockets (sure, I *could* make some pockets lined in velour -- can you say totally luxurious?! -- but I'm making AIOs instead). I like fitteds, but I'm still working on finding a pattern that I like to make some with. I've made up my own front-snapping pattern and I like it well enough, but just haven't taken the time to make more.
I'm all about All-in-Ones right now. I make them in the
http://www.verybaby.com Very Baby style. They have an internal soaker and aplix (like velcro) closures. Basically, they look and function exactly like a disposable diaper -- except that you wash them!!! If you were to buy these diapers they can certainly get pricey, but if you make them... gosh.. it's darn cheap (well, speaking in terms of cost-of-materials.. this doesn't count time and such).
Gosh... I could go on all day long. But I'm probably all over the place on this and giving you way more than you need or care to know....
Oh.. and for our wash routine? I don't rinse anything. I don't soak anything. I'm probably the laziest washer there is. But I like to keep things simple. I'd rather do other things than monitor my diaper laundry all day!!!

With Katherine, I hold the diaper over the toilet, and anything that rolls, plops off goes down the toilet. Then the diaper gets tossed in the washable bag. All Lucy's diapers go straight in there. Lucy's diapers do get stains, but come on! They're DIAPERS!!! They're designed to catch poop. If stains *do* bother you, sun them. The sun is *awesome*, especially on bf poo!
On wash day (every other day), I put in 1/4 of the recommended amount of detergent, dump some vinegar in the spout for fabric softener, and wash on hot with an extra cold rinse.
Then everything goes in the dryer on hot. I'll see people hanging out their PUL covers in hopes of 'sparing' them from the heat and damage, but actually the heat is *good* for PUL in helping to keep the seal there. Really. Sure, it might not be good for elastic, but it's good for the PUL

hm... and that's all. (that's all?

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If you have any questions, I would *love* to help out!!! I truly love using cloth diapers and want everybody else in the whole dang world to love them too!!!