Do you ever hate being a fertile/infertile woman?

[its_our_family]

Or just a woman in general sometimes?

I have no idea what I think anymore. i have a friend that has a baby 2 days older than ds and she found out she is pg again. I was happy for her and holding back the tears at the same time.

I have no idea what is going on with me and I know most of it is hormones but that doesn't make anything any easier. I have no idea what af is doing. I have no bloating or cramping. I've had no typical af sign or even a nontypical one. But I have some brown spotting. Is it af preparing...or jsut messing with my head? I don't feel like its af but I don't feel like I'm pregnant. I don't feel anything!

Sometimes I hate being a woman in the fact that our husbands don't think about all this and if they do it isn't a looming in the back of the mind type thing!

[chrissy]

ah yes, but but they never have the joy of being pregnant, giving birth or nursing a baby.

we women are the lucky ones!

[StarMama]

Sorry things are so confusing for you right now! I hate the hormonal thing too. I love being a woman, wouldn't want to be a guy... but I could really do without being a snarly witch 1/4th of the month (or now that I'm pregnant teary at the drop of a hat...)...

Is your cat sleeping on your tummy again? I know you said that the cat only did that when you were pregnant...

[its_our_family]

She did 2 nights ago...but last night I couldn't sleep and in between winks I had MAJOR HOT FLASHES!!!!

I'ms till having them...I'm in a cold swest right now!

[StarMama]

Geez, don't you wish our bodies came with owner manuals?! I know when I was charting I was trying to figure out what every single thing my body did meant, and then when we started TTC, and it got into that 2 week wait, man did I look at every single thing in terms of am I pregnant/or is this pms? And now that I'm pregnant, every symptom is looked at as "is this normal?". Boy I think I need more hobbies to keep myself busy!

Men have it so much easier in this department. No periods, no pregnancy (but it is such a miracle I can grow a baby!), no wondering when they are fertile or not, ect, ect...

I hope that whatever these weird signs are pointing to for you get to where they are going soon so you can *know* whats going on soon!

[its_our_family]

It's just crazy ol af! It still isn't heavy no cramps either. I tested...just to be sure cause I bled like this with ds. BFN!

Weird....hot flashes are still here though....i wish they'd go away!!