Originally Posted by rebeccalizzie
But honestly, I wouldn't have married my DH if he told me he expected to be more important than DD, so I guess it's not an issue for me.
I don't know, maybe I'm reacting to this because I have a good friend that I wish would dump her SO. He's got a child, and my friend wants him to basically ignore his child's needs and totally change the way he's been raising his DD for the past 11 years because "I should be more important than his kids, and I think he's raising them wrong". People like that shouldn't marry people with children, IMO.