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post #21 of 34
I'm a nurse but haven't worked in awhile. My first job out of nursing school was in pediatrics, but after I had my dd I got a job in PP. I had to assist in circs. I only worked there 3 months and I would never work in an area where I had to assist in circs again. It was just too hard for me to witness.

Have you though of any other areas that might interest you? I loved pediatrics and I should have gone back there, but I wanted to try OB because that is what I wanted to do when I was in nursing school too. Maybe try to work at a birth center. I don't think I could work in OB anymore because of all of the interventions unless it was at a birth center.

Good luck on your boards.
post #22 of 34
In the U.S. a circ is performed every 26 seconds. That comes out to more
than 1.2 million per year. Easily a billion dollar a year industry if you add up all the medical
supplies, etc.
post #23 of 34
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Originally Posted by mamanurse
As for children not being able to make informed decisions, this is always true. Parents make all medical decisions for their children up to a certain age that varies from state to state. . . . I think most parents want what's best for their children and we should respect their choices regardless of our own personal beliefs.
The problem with this line of thinking is that circumcision is not a medical decision, it's a social and cultural decision just like the decision of whether or not to tattoo an infant would be a social and cultural decision. There is no moral or ethical obligation to support a parent's right to tattoo their child and there is no moral or ethical obligation to support a parent's (perceived) right to violate their son's body in the most personal and private way possible either. If you support a parent's right to circumcise a son, you should also support their right to tattoo him as well. Do you support a parent's right to tattoo their child? Is there a confict here for you?



Frank
post #24 of 34
I am a nurse. Whenever I have worked OB in a hospital, I had a formal statement placed in my personnel file that stated that I would refuse to prep for, obtain consent for, restrain an infant for, or assist with a circumcision of any kind. You are permitted to state your moral or religious objections to a procedure as a healthcare worker. I have worked with JW nurses who refuse to hang or monitor a blood transfusion, to give you another example. I think the only time you can truly not refuse is in a case where you are the only one who could render care at the time and it is a life-threatening emergency. (such as you have an objection to ALL c-sections, but mom and baby are dying right now without one, so if you are the only one to assist, you are obligated to assist - just an EXAMPLE). Of course this rule would not apply to circ. As to circ after-care, well, I don't refuse to do that, b/c at the very least I can do the gentlest most pain free wound care that I possibly could.

Quirky, I think your opinion of healthcare workers with no guts is a little outta line. You can't blame everything on the healthcare industry. A lot of us do work tirelessly for change. People really need to educate themselves. Hell, some ppl do and they still go thru with the circ.
post #25 of 34
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Originally Posted by dove
I am a nurse. Whenever I have worked OB in a hospital, I had a formal statement placed in my personnel file that stated that I would refuse to prep for, obtain consent for, restrain an infant for, or assist with a circumcision of any kind. You are permitted to state your moral or religious objections to a procedure as a healthcare worker. I have worked with JW nurses who refuse to hang or monitor a blood transfusion, to give you another example. I think the only time you can truly not refuse is in a case where you are the only one who could render care at the time and it is a life-threatening emergency. (such as you have an objection to ALL c-sections, but mom and baby are dying right now without one, so if you are the only one to assist, you are obligated to assist - just an EXAMPLE). Of course this rule would not apply to circ. As to circ after-care, well, I don't refuse to do that, b/c at the very least I can do the gentlest most pain free wound care that I possibly could.
I admire you for taking a stand. I really do. I think you are acting ethically and morally and are a good example for other health care professionals.

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Quirky, I think your opinion of healthcare workers with no guts is a little outta line. You can't blame everything on the healthcare industry. A lot of us do work tirelessly for change. People really need to educate themselves. Hell, some ppl do and they still go thru with the circ.
I disagree. If doctors en masse refused to perform this unnecessary cosmetic surgery on babies, it would end tomorrow. Parents may want circ but it's doctors who do it (and nurses who assist, and hospitals that make money off it) that perpetuate this shameful tradition. If the healthcare industry refused to perform or pay for RIC, it would die out quicker than the dodo. Yes, religious circs would continue, and yes, some non-religious people would be so motivated to circ that they would seek out a religious circ provider, but the rates of RIC would drop through the floor into the single digits. Parents may want circs but it's docs who do the cutting (and nurses who do the assisting).

I have seen way too many posts here and heard from way too many people in real life about the doctors who personally oppose circ....but do them anyway. About midwives who personally oppose circ....but do them anyway. About medical professionals of all varieties who oppose circ...but don't offer that opinion until AFTER the decision has been made. As in, "You didn't circ! That's great! There's no reason for it, anyway." Yeah, well, where is that statement being made to parents ahead of time? And it is a total copout to "educate" parents but then follow through by performing the circ if they really want it. The only ethical RIC is the one that isn't performed.

I fully realize that many doctors and nurses, like yourself, take the ethical high road. But I daresay you're in the minority still. If it were otherwise, we wouldn't still have a national circ rate of over a million baby boys a year, slightly more than half of all boys born every year. What other procedure can you think of that we leave it up to the parents to educate themselves about? It is the healthcare professional's obligation to ensure true informed consent. Yes, parents should educate and inform themselves - ITA. But as far as a professional, ethical obligation to refuse to perform circs - that's on the healthcare professional.
post #26 of 34
Yeah, I definitely get what you're saying. The thing about hcw's performing circs who are really in their heart opposed to the procedure? I just don't get that either. I have talked with a cnm who did them (she worked at a hospital in NYC whose patient population was predominately Orthodox Jew) and she told me while after a while she could not do them anymore, she was pressured intensely to do them, and her rationale was that the patient population wanted it done, anyway, so as long as she was doing them the baby was at the very least getting a pudenal nerve block and she was doing what she considered to be a "token" circ. I still would've taken a stand, but at the time, she felt like what she was doing was better than what had been previously been done.

Yes, if all of the practitioners who did circ stopped and made a stand, of course that would have a huge impact. It would be wonderful!!! The problem with that line of thinking, though - is that nurses and midwives and docs are just everyday people, too. They don't all have the same feelings about circ as you and I do. (which is a shame, but true). Just like parents all over the country don't have the same thoughts on circ.

I want it all to end, too - but I just wanted to share some thoughts.

My biggest hope is that OP sees my post and knows that she has the power to say "NO". Lots of nurses don't know this is possible. A lot more of them know but are the main breadwinners in their families and are afraid to take a stand in this patriarchal health care system of ours. There are usually some ramifications to taking a stand. I know I used to get a lot of heat at a former place of employment, and while it never shook my convictions, had I had a family to feed and less strong a conviction, I could see how I may have wavered.
post #27 of 34
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Originally Posted by dove
My biggest hope is that OP sees my post and knows that she has the power to say "NO". Lots of nurses don't know this is possible. A lot more of them know but are the main breadwinners in their families and are afraid to take a stand in this patriarchal health care system of ours. There are usually some ramifications to taking a stand. I know I used to get a lot of heat at a former place of employment, and while it never shook my convictions, had I had a family to feed and less strong a conviction, I could see how I may have wavered.
I do want to state that I totally respect nurses who refuse to assist....I can see how it's much harder for nurses to take a stand given that you're in a less powerful position vis-a-vis the doctors and the hospital, and I applaud your courage and conviction.
post #28 of 34
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Originally Posted by Quirky
I disagree. If doctors en masse refused to perform this unnecessary cosmetic surgery on babies, it would end tomorrow. Parents may want circ but it's doctors who do it (and nurses who assist, and hospitals that make money off it) that perpetuate this shameful tradition. If the healthcare industry refused to perform or pay for RIC, it would die out quicker than the dodo. Yes, religious circs would continue, and yes, some non-religious people would be so motivated to circ that they would seek out a religious circ provider, but the rates of RIC would drop through the floor into the single digits. Parents may want circs but it's docs who do the cutting (and nurses who do the assisting).

I have seen way too many posts here and heard from way too many people in real life about the doctors who personally oppose circ....but do them anyway. About midwives who personally oppose circ....but do them anyway. About medical professionals of all varieties who oppose circ...but don't offer that opinion until AFTER the decision has been made. As in, "You didn't circ! That's great! There's no reason for it, anyway." Yeah, well, where is that statement being made to parents ahead of time? And it is a total copout to "educate" parents but then follow through by performing the circ if they really want it. The only ethical RIC is the one that isn't performed.

I fully realize that many doctors and nurses, like yourself, take the ethical high road. But I daresay you're in the minority still. If it were otherwise, we wouldn't still have a national circ rate of over a million baby boys a year, slightly more than half of all boys born every year. What other procedure can you think of that we leave it up to the parents to educate themselves about? It is the healthcare professional's obligation to ensure true informed consent. Yes, parents should educate and inform themselves - ITA. But as far as a professional, ethical obligation to refuse to perform circs - that's on the healthcare professional.
Quirky, I agree with you 100% on this. This abuse of men was started by the medical profession, it has been perpetuated by the medical profession and is being continued by the medical profession. They are the sole reason it is still happening.

For an example, several years ago, a study was done in a Hawaiian military hospital where the researchers could be assured of 100% participation. All they had to do was truly give parents full information for truly informed consent. The circumcision rate instantly dropped from ~80% to ~20%. They still performed circumcisions on demand but they were required to give the parents complete information on what they were requesting.

Another more real world example that hasn't even required anything is after the death of Ryleigh McWillis, the medical profession in Canada started paying attention to what some of their medical associations were saying and the circumcision rate dropped 40% in a single year in Manitoba and there were similar drops in Saskatchewan, Alberta and British Columbia and the national rate dropped from 17% to 10% in a single 2 year period. My understanding is that there is only one single Jewish doctor in the Vancouver area who will still perform circumcisions.

There are 4 links in the chain of abuse, the doctors, the nurses, the hospitals and the parents. Break a single link in the chain and circumcision is dead. If the doctors refuse to perform circumcisions, there will be no more. If the nurses refuse to assist, there will be no more . If the hospitals refuse to allow their premises to be used, there will be no more and if parents refuse, there will be no more. It comes down to who is the most responsible to make the biggest and quickest change to irrepairably break the chain. Of course, that's the doctors because they are responsible for informing parents and they are the ones who do the cutting and they are the ones that benefit the most financially. But, nurses are also responsible because they play an active role. They give information and they aid and assist in the violation. Hospitals also benefit financially and make it easy for doctors to perform the procedure outside normal business hours and not to tie up the doctor's facilities and resources. Parents have the least responsibility because they assume almost all of the risk and expense and are the least responsible for having the medical knowledge to know that circumcision is nothing more than a violation and risk. That's not to say they have no responsibility, just less than the professionals.

If there are no doctors to perform the procedure, there will be no procedures. If there are no nurses to prepare or assist, the doctors will soon give it up. If there are no hospitals that support it and allow it, it becomes more troublesome for doctors and parents will begin to question why.

Something as remote as insurers refusing to pay would have a tremendous impact. Insurance companies universally refusing to pay (Including Medicare) would decrease the circumcision rate 50% or more from the current rate virtualy over night.

The whole circumcision craze is a house of cards. Remove a single card and the whole thing comes tumbling down. Just a single element of the medical profession wing would bring the whole thing to the ground and it's the medical profession that should be leading the way. Instead, it's the medical profession that is fighting tooth and nail.




Frank
post #29 of 34

Frank, I'm going to copy and paste your post above and send it to all my lists.
Thanks for that.
Baybee
post #30 of 34
Doctors can refuse to participate in a circumcision -- what a double standard that would be if nurses couldn't! If I were you I would not ask if they would accomodate you before getting hired -- and only state after getting hired that you will not remove healthy functional parts of infant babies because it is unethical. If they say you need to do it anyway or you'll be fired, say, "Fine. I expect my lawyer will be interested in hearing that."

Just imagine if all anti-circ nurses did the same!

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It is also our job to support them in their decisions even if we don't necessarily agree with them.
No, no, no. It is not your job to do ANYTHING unethical. Your job is to provide medical care. Circumcision is not medical care. Caring for a circ'd infant after the fact is. But you don't have to cut off any part of a baby for non-medical reasons just because you're told to, or assist someone else in doing it. That is most definitely not any nurse's job.
post #31 of 34

Thought-provoking quote from a nurse...

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Look at these hands.

These hands have taken a newborn baby from his mother's safe warm breast and his father's sheltering arms, and these hands have tied this baby to a cold hard platter and served him up to the circumciser.

These hands have readied the scalpel, even as they caressed the brow of the terrified baby as he struggles for freedom and searches my eyes for compassion he will not find.

A tortured being has sucked frantically on this finger in a hopeless effort to end the agony as his flesh - his birthright - is ripped from him and thrown in the garbage.

These hands have removed the diaper painfully adhered to the feces-covered wound between his chubby legs.

These hands have shielded my ears from his screams.

Nurses of America, I did not become a nurse to hurt babies, and neither did you.

-Mary Conant, R.N., Statement to the press May 25, 1994, Third International Symposium on Circumcision, University of Maryland

http://nurses.cirp.org/Look_at_these_hands.html
A single person can make a difference, and you have the choice to be part of the problem, or part of the solution.

Jen
post #32 of 34
I just thought of something. Nurses can refuse to give out birth control pills on moral grounds - not even religious, but moral. So you should be able to refuse a circumcision on the same grounds.
post #33 of 34
I'm going to ask my mom to comment on this thread. She works L&D and is anti-circ. As far as I know, she hasn't ever assisted with one, and she is actually asked by the new parents her opinion about it often. She has a chance to make a real difference. She holds onto one line of arguement for a bit, then changes it, then holds onto that for a while, so she gets a lot of information out there, just not all at once. Her current response to being asked about it is, "would we even be having this conversation if he was a girl? then why are we having it now?" She always lets people know that my brother isn't circ'ed and has never had any problems. I'll ask her to come post.
post #34 of 34
don't forget insurance companies and state-funded medical assistance, frank. they are huge links, too.
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