offending others (long winded) - Page 2

[Kleine Hexe]

If they ask me I have no reservations about them feeling offended. I usually just say, "No, why would I?"

[northernmommy]

Originally Posted by jee'smom

northernmommy: if you haven't told your mil yet, i would right away. what if the baby's with your dh, mil changes diaper, retracts to clean it... i was upfront with everyone right from the beginning (as soon as we found out it was a boy), so if anyone came into contact with my son, they would know he was kept intact and how to care for it. good luck!

Oops, I should have mentioned that she has not been changing any diapers. We don't live close by, so she doesn't see him very often and has not had an opportunity to babysit yet, but when that circumstance arises I will mention it to her and tell her not to retract anything.
Thanks!