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post #1 of 28
Thread Starter 
hey there,
wasn't gonna post about this just yet, but I think maybe I should. Perhaps all your wishes/prayers can help.

I've been planning a homebirth with a wonderful MW and my whole pregnancy has gone completely well. No morning sickness, not excessively uncomfortable etc. the only thing that happened (and is not shocking) is that my ankles swell sometimes (but that happened to me on a flight to amsterdam even before I was pregnant....just a tendency in my family I think). a few varicosities, but can really complain about anything.

My due date is today (4/20). My appt. last week showed trace amounts of protein in my urine. The appt. 2 days ago (4/18), my protein was HIGH. like 300+. I freaked out, and immediately almost started crying. Ankles looked like crap, with the protein, I figured I was screwed. I cried through my BP readings (so you know those were lovely). 140/99 or something insane.

My MW is wonderful. She kept telling me to quit making a decision about this. That it could have been inaccurate BP readings because I was upset about the urine etc. etc. The urine problem could be dehydration, etc. She said she was not giving up on the idea of our homebirth. Etc etc.

I drank 3 liters of water that night, and 3 in the morning. I laid on my left side, and the MW came to my house (came in the door so I could stay laying down and completely relaxed). BP was 130/80. Not too shabby. Protein had dropped to +30. Also a great sign. Ankle swelling had decreased dramatically.

Later that afternoon, I got a requisition form to take to the lab for blood work (my veins SUCK) so we tested my pee again then. It had gone up a bit (+100) but still wasnt as bad as on 4/18. I drank 12 liters of water yesterday. Crazy. My mouth is constantly dry. I cannot explain why I am so damn thirsty, but I really do think I could be dehydrated. Esp. cuz our house is like the Sahara desert (my DH has a dehumidifier keeping the house at 50% humidity for his allergies). Ever since I've been home, my drinking of water unconsciously decreased and I've been in the desert house Thats when the protein started.

The lab stuck me 3 times (everyone pity the poor 40 week pregnant pin cushion!! hehe) before getting what they needed. They are doing tests to check my liver function and blood profiles.

So its touch and go for now. MW is coming again today to do the blood pressure and check my urine.

Please make wishes that this is not pre-E and I can continue with the homebirth.

We are so close!!
XOXO
Beth

P.S. The GBS test also came back positive. When it rains it pours right? I'm READY for this baby to come for crying out loud.
post #2 of 28
s Beth I'm sorry you are having to deal with all this stress and worry. I will be praying that the blood tests all come back ok and you can continue your homebirth plans s
post #3 of 28
awww, I will be thinking of you, dearie. Hope baby comes soon and you keep those BP's and Protein levels down! Drink water X 1,000,000 LOL Be encouraged! You're almost there!
post #4 of 28
I'll be thinking about you. You might also try adding protein shakes to your diet, I've heard it helps some people, and if definitely drink as much as you are thirsty and then some. It sounds like you are doing everything right, best wishes to you.
post #5 of 28


We are dealing with the same thing. I pray that we bot hget the birth we want. Don't discard the power of positive thinking and visualization. When I'm laying on my side I try to envision cool waters and breezes making my BP lower. The last reading I had was 130/85, which was down from 140/100. Also, I'm drinking cornsilk tea 3x a day and taking 400mg of magnesium chelate each day. And seeing an acupuncturist and eating TONS of protein. The thing my acup figured out was that I wasn't digesting the protein, so it wasn't helping. So today I added dietary enzymes (1/snack, 2/meal) to help that issue.

I'm assuming that they were taking blood for the lver panel... did you get the results yet? You might consider drinking 3 cups of Red Raspberry Leaf tea and taking high doses of EPO to help prepare your body in case you do need an induction.
Hang in there!!!!
post #6 of 28
Good luck!.
post #7 of 28
You are in my thoughts - good luck!
post #8 of 28
Beth
I am so sorry that you and Michael are having to deal with all this now. But I also know that you have an excellent midwife who will take wonderful care of you and the baby. I will be thinking of you and sending lots of labor dust so that this baby comes out soon.
post #9 of 28
thinking of you!
post #10 of 28
Thread Starter 
Thanks guys!

So far we're hanging in there. Today protein was +30 (not terrible but not great) and BP was 138/74. According to the MW, the bottom number is more important, so that 74 looks pretty good.

Blood work came back normal except I was "borderline" in the areas of albumen, protein, and alkaline phosposomething (I didnt understand her when she told me).

Again the message was "eat protein for every meal and every snack." AHHHH. I am have at LEAST 20 grams of protein at every meal and every snack. Its frustrating because I am at a loss of how to improve that. I am eating protein shakes, protein bars, tofu sausage, tofu hot dogs, beans, etc.

One of the posters mentioned dietary enzymes. Maybe I should look into that??

Hangin in there. Of course, now that we are at the due date the phone calls are rolling in about "has the baby come yet?" which is annoying but its nice people are thinking of me.

I really appreciate all your thoughts and wishes!!
XOXO
Beth
post #11 of 28
Thinking of you.

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(((((Beth)))))
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(((((Beth)))))
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post #16 of 28
How's it going?
post #17 of 28
Thread Starter 
Hanging in there

My B/P is still normal so they don't think its Pre-E. I get freaked out with every headache, etc. though. Protein is not really decreasing, and swelling still sucks. So I go through periods of huge doubt where I feel that something may be wrong.

My best friend told me that near the end of her pregnancy, she got paranoid though, so I'm trying to remember that as well.

Having never been pregnant before, I don't know how mentally wacked out is normal.....

All that "trust your intuition" stuff is not working for me at all right now I feel normal sometimes, and like a basketcase other times.

I've done some more reading about being overdue thats made me feel less anxiety about that. In my mind, I was convinced I would go early like my mom did, so this is not something I prepared for initially. I used to think I would only go to 41 weeks. After doing research, it looks like 42 weeks is perfectly safe as well. If anyone has any other thoughts on this, please share!

Baby is low in the pelvis, but no other signs that labor is imminent. Heart tones sounded great yesterday, and the MW said the "accels" were a great sign of oxygenation. Put me at ease a little. My mom said she had NO warning, except out of the blue water breaking and labor starting soon afterwards....so perhaps the mucus plug and all that will come all at once??

Hoping to have a birth story to post soon enough!
XOXO
Beth
post #18 of 28
Glad to hear you're hanging in there!

Just a couple things--first, yes, going to 42 weeks is perfectly normal! Some babies just need a few extra days to cook and that's as normal as babies who decide to come at 38 weeks. So if possible try not to stress about that.

As for when labor might start--for both my labors they really just came right out of nowhere. One day I was my normal self, and the next I was having contractions and losing my plug. And my babies never dropped into the pelvis before labor either (first never did, and second didn't until I was well into labor).

In fact, with Quinn, I had an appt on Thursday 4/13 at which I was only a fingertip dilated. Sunday I started having contractions. So you really just never know.

I'll keep my fingers crossed that contractions are just about to start for you!
post #19 of 28
Beth I am feeling like you too , today I have been an emotional basketcase! I'm 41weeks (and expected babe to be here by now!) and have also been reading up on 42+week pregnancies. All the info I am finding is that even though we are post EDD a baby is not considered post mature or really 'overdue' until past 42weeks. Our bean is also low and engaged but no other signs of imminent labour other than loose bowles but that has been about 4 or 5 days now

Lets hope we both have out of the blue births tonight
post #20 of 28
(((((HUGS))))) to all in waiting! ~sandi
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