Darcy, in response to your question about your baby's lungs, the docs would give you steroid shots (in your butt...yay
) to help develop baby's lungs. That's what they did for me, and Sam turned out to be just fine! Plus, at 34 weeks, you're past almost all of the developmental hurdles. Hang in there, mama! Take a break, put your feet up, and just try and relax. You'll be fine!