I gave my OB my birth plan a couple weeks ago and she said everything was fine. Yesterday she brought it up again, and said the doctors were concerned that I wanted to completely waive an IV *OR* a Hep lock. I really don't mean to be noncompliant on purpose, I have reasons for every single thing on my birth plan. I've researched everything, looked for pros and cons of every little thing, and if there was ever a question about which one was better I've trusted my instinct. I DON'T WANT a hep lock sticking in me the entire time I'm laboring at the hospital...they're uncomfortable and distracting, and cause stress to the point that I can't concentrate on my labor and baby, but instead this big hunk of stuff hanging out of my arm. I told her I would think about it - which I am - but I am having a hard time coming up with anything to think about. 
The OB said her concern is that this is my 3rd baby, and after 2 babies the mom is more likely to hemmorage (sp?) after birth. I have never heard that before but I'm not discounting her, at leat not yet...does anyone else have any information on that? And, a friend suggested trying to compromise by saying I'll get a pitocin shot if I start bleeding heavily. Any advice/experience/facts about that? Finally, what is the deal with the Hep lock anyway? She said in an emergency they can hook it up to an IV more quickly, but it seems like when I had an IV for a non-birth-related thing (not an emergency) they were able to hook it up pretty darn fast. I can't imagine them hooking up any faster, and that was just a routine sort of thing. Is it really necessary to have a Hep in place?
Sorry this is so babble-y...any input would be appreciated.

The OB said her concern is that this is my 3rd baby, and after 2 babies the mom is more likely to hemmorage (sp?) after birth. I have never heard that before but I'm not discounting her, at leat not yet...does anyone else have any information on that? And, a friend suggested trying to compromise by saying I'll get a pitocin shot if I start bleeding heavily. Any advice/experience/facts about that? Finally, what is the deal with the Hep lock anyway? She said in an emergency they can hook it up to an IV more quickly, but it seems like when I had an IV for a non-birth-related thing (not an emergency) they were able to hook it up pretty darn fast. I can't imagine them hooking up any faster, and that was just a routine sort of thing. Is it really necessary to have a Hep in place?
Sorry this is so babble-y...any input would be appreciated.








We have the same reasons for not wanting one and I will probably still say no.





about meds I remind myself the size of the needles (not to mention all the other reasons I don't want drugs,but needle get me back to my place!!
But, at my last appointment, she announced her pregnancy (yay for her!) and her mannerisms are very different. She's in her first trimester and her husband lives on the opposite end of the country...she got pregnant during a vacation she had with him recently...and I'm sure her emotions are in a turmoil right now. She wasn't acting like herself at all. This was the first appointment that my husband was able to attend, and afterwards he said "She doesn't sound quite as 'natural' as you made her out to be!"

