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post #1 of 73
4/26/06 at 1:37pm
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Mamas Im Sorry To Tell You All This. As I Know You Are Getting Ready To Give Birth.
The Day Before Yesterday I Didnt Feel My Baby Girl Move For Three Hours And As She Is Always Very Active I Called My Doctor And We Met At His Office At 10:30 Pm.
There Was No Heartbeat. I Gave Birth To My Sweet Precious Baby Yesterday And We Had To Say Goodbye.
I Dont Think I Can Live Through This. But I Have My Sofie And Db. If I Didnt Have Them I Dont Know What I Would Do.
I Cant Take This. Where In This Forum Can I Find Mamas That Went Through This? Can Someone Point Me In That Direction-i Tried To Look But I Just Cant See Anything Right Now.

I WANTED TO ADD THIS:
SWEET BABY WAS BORN 6 LBS 14 OZ AND 20" LONG. I WAS 36 WEEKS 2 DAYS SHE WAS INCREDIBLY BEAUTIFUL AND PERFECT. I spent a few hours with her.

they took blood for testing, but there are no answers now. first thing my doctor and i talked about is that most likely its something to do with the cord. cord had a blood clot in it. cord and placenta will be looked at to try and figure this out.
post #2 of 73
4/26/06 at 1:42pm
Oh, not in your DDC, but I'm crying for you mama and I'm so glad that you have support right now. Big huge hugs to you and to your little babe

There is a support forum here (Pregnancy and Birth Loss):

http://www.mothering.com/discussions...splay.php?f=22
post #3 of 73
4/26/06 at 1:42pm
I'm so sorry you are going through this mama. Please check out the Grief and Loss forum, you should find other mamas who have had to deal with this to talk to. Again I am so sorry.
post #4 of 73
4/26/06 at 1:44pm
Oh mama I am so sorry. I can't imagine what you are going through. There is a forum for this Pregnancy and Birth loss 3 down from the pregnancy board. I have spent some time there they are wonderful women. With much advice and guidance to give. I pray you have all the support you need at this time.
Emily
post #5 of 73
4/26/06 at 1:45pm
Oh my God, Mariah, I don't know what to say to you. There is a Pregnancy and Birth Loss board here with lots and lots of courageous mamas who can surely give you insight. My heart breaks for you and for your family. We are all here for you, I'm here for you, if you need an ear or a shoulder, please PM me-- if there is anything at all I can do just let me know.

My thoughts and prayers are with you, mama, and with your angel daughter during this terrible, terrible time.
post #6 of 73
4/26/06 at 1:48pm
I'm so sorry. No one should have to go through that. There is a Grief and Loss forum and sadly there are other mommas here who have gone through the same thing. Hugs to you...
post #7 of 73
4/26/06 at 1:51pm
Not in your DDC but saw your post and had to respond. I am so sorry, it is so unfair. I am crying with you and sending so much good energy your way, mama.
post #8 of 73
4/26/06 at 1:54pm
OMG Mama! I saw this when clicking new posts... I am so sorry for your loss, I cannot even imagine. I wish you and your family all the strength in the world to get thru this devastating time. I hope you are able to find support while you grieve. You will forever have an angel watching over you and your family.
post #9 of 73
4/26/06 at 2:00pm
I am so sorry mama. My thoughts are with you and your whole family at this difficult time.
post #10 of 73
4/26/06 at 2:02pm
Couldn't read without saying something. I'm so sorry for your loss. Your family will be in my thoughts. Take care and stay strong.
post #11 of 73
4/26/06 at 2:04pm
I am so sorry for your loss - your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Angela
post #12 of 73
4/26/06 at 2:10pm
Oh my gosh honey. I wish I knew what to say. All my love hon.

post #13 of 73
4/26/06 at 2:11pm


There are (sadly) a bunch of mamas on MDC who have lost babies... if you go to the pregnancy and birth loss forum (link posted above) I know they will have some wisdom to share with you, and lots of love and support to give.

I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet precious baby. I am glad you were able to spend some time with her.
post #14 of 73
4/26/06 at 2:13pm
I just don't know what to say besides I am am so sorry for your tremendous loss.
post #15 of 73
4/26/06 at 2:13pm
I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you and your family strength and healing. Even though there is no way to rationalize what has happened, I hope that you get clear answers that give you some peace. my condolences and prayers are with you.
post #16 of 73
4/26/06 at 2:15pm
I forgot to ask what you named your Angel Baby.
post #17 of 73
4/26/06 at 2:18pm
Bless you...........I am so very sorry for your loss...........
post #18 of 73
4/26/06 at 2:24pm
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post #19 of 73
4/26/06 at 2:28pm
I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't begin to imagine the grief you must feel. I am glad you got to spend time with her and say goodbye.
post #20 of 73
4/26/06 at 2:57pm
Stepping in from the June DDC...so sorry to hear of the loss of your beautiful baby. Know that you are not alone and the spirit of your child will guide you through this amazingly difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Much love to you all.
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