I'm Missing Out!!
|Originally Posted by phatchristy
they are nearly always full body orgasms (to the extent that sometimes I swear I am floating above my body in ecstacy ). I feel it in my arms, back and incredibly in my face among other places. And, his response was "I feel it on the penis or it feels good on the penis." He didn't really have a concept exactly of what I meant by full body orgasms.
What has amazed me is this: I'm choosing to wait until marriage for the 'act', but in fooling around and sometimes just kissing, ex gf's have been *extremely* responsive. Just cuddling with them, or kissing. One gf went into spasms and 'woke the neighbors' . I remember her telling me about a prior bf who couldn't come inside of her--she asked me why that might have been --was it an inadequacy in her? I didn't know--now I know--her bf was circed!! My current g/f and I can be just laying on the couch in each other's arms, fully clothed, just kissing, and she can come again and again and again. It's amazing. Me? It takes an act of Congress. And though I enjoy seeing her response, sometimes I've felt like I'm accomdating her--rather than just reveling in the joy of just being together. (I had just started restoring when I met her, and taking the tape off, I was more sensitive to rubbing against her, but still nothing compared to her 'earth-shaking' experiences. And increasingly I've realized that the girls I've dated get WAAAYYYYYY more out of our sexual experiences than do I
I have to admit that sometimes I read these posts I get so angry at what was done to me. (and perhaps a bit 'down') But it does help for me to actively talk parents out of 'circing'--very exciting to see my friends 'see the light'.