s ohhhhhh! one on the pot and one on the rug! you poor thing! I hate to laugh a little, but I am since I've gone thru the smae thing with Isabella and Eloisa. It'll be over soon!
Well Eloisa is refusing to nap.
It;s 12:17 and she's been up since 6am. arrrrggggggg!
Whats strange is that for once (the 1st time in 2 months????) She does NOT want to be held or cuddled right now.
Hm..... She seems to be content to raom around the house and whine.
: Really it's liek a sad cat mewling.
I can't tell if she's experimenting with sound or if she's unhappy.
Sometimes i feel; like this kid is a complete mystery to me. She has such a poker face. I thought it was just me - but i was talkign to my mom and she said she also felt that Eloisa has a poker face....she's so hard to read.
Maybe thats why DH is having a hard time getting close to her.
Whole seperate issue really - but I had it out with DH the other day about him treating Eloisa different than he had treated Isabella at that stage. got on my nerves. Especially when I was in the kitchen up to my elbows in deer meat - obviously in no position ot intervene - and DH is playing video gmaes while Elloisa is on the floor. She's standing holding onto the TV table and she falls back on her head. He just looks over at her and see's that she's ok.... but then she lookks and him, sees him not picking her up and she gets upset.
Then she gets more nad more upset. Finally she is at what i call "the point of no return" basically she is soo upset she doesn't know what for anymore and is just crying for the sheer need to cry.
He still hasn't picked her up. I'm yellign at him from the kitchen now to pick up HIS DD. Finally he does & ofcourse the only thing that will calm her down now is to nurse. But I'm covered in raw meat, so in the meantime Eloisa just needs some cuddling from DH untill I can clean up.
So DH is holding her, rolling his eyes, not realy putting any empathy or feeling into it and now Elosia is screeching.
And he;s yelling at me - "look , she doesn;t want me - it doesn;t matter if I hold ehr she's just going to scream anyway"
then - get this!
He looks Eloisa in the eye & says : " fine! if your just gonna cry you cna do that on the floor" and puts her down
aggggggggg! I kept my cool, finished washign my hands, nursed the baby. Poor thing was so exhausted she conked out.
But OMG! I was sooooo mad!
He really got it the next day. I knew there was no reasoning with him right then - so i waited.
the past few dyas he's been doing really well, and he;s been making sure to spend alone time with just him & Eloisa.
I hope this sticks - I'd hate for some kind of Isabella favortism to develop.