I've been homebirthing for too long I guess. All my friends homebirth, too, at least most of them... but I'm feeling out of touch I guess. I used to teach CBE classes and stopped about 5 years ago, and just recently was asked to volunteer to teach again at a pregnancy center.... but suddenly I feel so out of touch with what's going on in OBs today. I have 2 clients in my class at the pregnancy center, both induced early-- before their due dates. The doc started talking about scheduling inductioni as soon as they hit their 34th week... they both were induced around 37-38 weeks.... And yes, both of them ended up having way too much interventions and have trouble breastfeeding now because of it.
Now I am seeing so many ladies HERE at MOTHERING being induced. I am so shocked and surprised! I mean, Mothering has had GOOD information about the dangers of induction, and supports natural childbirth.... so I have to assume that ladies in the MOTHERING community have the right *info* they need about induction. So what's going on that so many are still induced before due dates? Is it pressure from friends, family, OBs??? Or are you truly ASKING to be induced because you want it? I just feel like I need to know.... my ladies at the PRC just assumed they were supposed to, the OB started talking about it and they had heard in class about induction, but the OB scheduled it..... and if you are a first-time mom of only 19 or 20 years old, I guess the OB has more influence on you than a mom of almost 7 who teaches your class at the pregnancy center.
I guess I just don't get it--- so many moms who let their babies have the bottle rather than wean them because "they aren't ready".... or won't potty train "they aren't ready".... give bottle instead of breast because "he didn't want to, he liked the bottle better"..... I hear these things, but then the same woman says "we're inducing labor at 38 weeks whether he's ready or not, because I'm tired of being pregnant." Why the push to get baby out?
I'm due May 10-- today!-- and I've had prodromal labor since April 23. I spent all day Monday with early labor ctx, and all day yesterday with ctx that also leaked fluid because I had what MWs call a "high leak"... it sealed, I'm no longer leaking and no more ctx. I may or may not have this baby this week... although I hope.
A lady at church was due the same day as me.... but she was scheduled to be induced last Wednesday, the 3rd, at 39 weeks. The induction failed and she got a c-section. Last year a mom at our church was induced at 39 weeks with CYTOTEC and her uterus ruptured (and this was her FIRST labor/pregnancy) and she had to have an ER c-section and her baby spent a week in special care nursery with "wet lung syndrome".....
There is a new report out in the news, about how the U.S.A. is second-to-last in developed countries for infant mortality rates. About 5 out of every 1000 U.S. babies are dying. Over 98% of U. S. babies are born in hospitals with OBs attending and all the latest technology available. 2% of U.S. babies are born out of hospital, with MWs... the stats for MWs is that they only lose about .3 out of every 1000 babies. Why? Why is a homebirthed baby so much likelier to live through infancy? Is induction influencing this?
I'm really really wondering if MY thinking is really SO out there... I mean, when my first child was born, I never knew ANYONE who got induced. Two years later, I knew ONE lady got induced on her due date, because it was her 4th child and she needed to plan childcare and talked her doc into doing it... I had the same doc for #3 and he induced me too, for "prodromal labor" and to "make it easy" since my MIL already had my kids that day. (My induction was a total emergency afterwards, the birth itself went OK but afterwards I bled, baby was too early, it was a disaster.) But now it's only 12 years later, and I don't know hardly anyone else besides me who is NOT being induced, and before the due date! I mean, I have known quite a few being induced at 42 weeks .... but now everyone is being induced at 37, 38, 39 weeks.
I guess I'm rambling now... I want to try to understand, and know what CBEs are supposed to be doing to help women know their choices in childbirth and what's healthiest for the baby.....
Now I am seeing so many ladies HERE at MOTHERING being induced. I am so shocked and surprised! I mean, Mothering has had GOOD information about the dangers of induction, and supports natural childbirth.... so I have to assume that ladies in the MOTHERING community have the right *info* they need about induction. So what's going on that so many are still induced before due dates? Is it pressure from friends, family, OBs??? Or are you truly ASKING to be induced because you want it? I just feel like I need to know.... my ladies at the PRC just assumed they were supposed to, the OB started talking about it and they had heard in class about induction, but the OB scheduled it..... and if you are a first-time mom of only 19 or 20 years old, I guess the OB has more influence on you than a mom of almost 7 who teaches your class at the pregnancy center.
I guess I just don't get it--- so many moms who let their babies have the bottle rather than wean them because "they aren't ready".... or won't potty train "they aren't ready".... give bottle instead of breast because "he didn't want to, he liked the bottle better"..... I hear these things, but then the same woman says "we're inducing labor at 38 weeks whether he's ready or not, because I'm tired of being pregnant." Why the push to get baby out?
I'm due May 10-- today!-- and I've had prodromal labor since April 23. I spent all day Monday with early labor ctx, and all day yesterday with ctx that also leaked fluid because I had what MWs call a "high leak"... it sealed, I'm no longer leaking and no more ctx. I may or may not have this baby this week... although I hope.
A lady at church was due the same day as me.... but she was scheduled to be induced last Wednesday, the 3rd, at 39 weeks. The induction failed and she got a c-section. Last year a mom at our church was induced at 39 weeks with CYTOTEC and her uterus ruptured (and this was her FIRST labor/pregnancy) and she had to have an ER c-section and her baby spent a week in special care nursery with "wet lung syndrome".....There is a new report out in the news, about how the U.S.A. is second-to-last in developed countries for infant mortality rates. About 5 out of every 1000 U.S. babies are dying. Over 98% of U. S. babies are born in hospitals with OBs attending and all the latest technology available. 2% of U.S. babies are born out of hospital, with MWs... the stats for MWs is that they only lose about .3 out of every 1000 babies. Why? Why is a homebirthed baby so much likelier to live through infancy? Is induction influencing this?
I'm really really wondering if MY thinking is really SO out there... I mean, when my first child was born, I never knew ANYONE who got induced. Two years later, I knew ONE lady got induced on her due date, because it was her 4th child and she needed to plan childcare and talked her doc into doing it... I had the same doc for #3 and he induced me too, for "prodromal labor" and to "make it easy" since my MIL already had my kids that day. (My induction was a total emergency afterwards, the birth itself went OK but afterwards I bled, baby was too early, it was a disaster.) But now it's only 12 years later, and I don't know hardly anyone else besides me who is NOT being induced, and before the due date! I mean, I have known quite a few being induced at 42 weeks .... but now everyone is being induced at 37, 38, 39 weeks.
I guess I'm rambling now... I want to try to understand, and know what CBEs are supposed to be doing to help women know their choices in childbirth and what's healthiest for the baby.....








I'm fortunate that my body was ready for labor already and it went pretty well considering. It wasn't my dream birth but it could've been waaay worse. My dd (38w1d) was not really ready to be born- a really sleepy nurser and just not "ready" IMO.



It makes me feel better to know it wasn't just me.


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) of course *everyone* asked me when the "big day" was, (i hate that so many poeple assume baby will come right on time...even women who've had late babies) and were surprised when i said that I'm due this week, but it could easily be another two weeks or more before he arrives. one said, "oh, my doctor let me choose the day" (very proudly) the mother of one of the ladies is a midwife, and she was telling me how one of her mother's patients is due in a couple weeks, but m/w is leaving for a conference around the same time. so she is doing everything to help induce labor...stripping membranes, etc. and, next week she plans on doing cytotec...she feels she can justify this. it made me sick to think that a midwife was being so nonchalant about inducing someone weeks before her due date, for no other reason than convenience. i couldn't say anything to this chick, i didn't want to say anything cruel or offensive about her mother....

I was just 20 weeks and she mentioned induction after 38 weeks if i wanted to
: Crazy how quick they are to get that going. With rachel, my water broke at noon on a Tuesday, and finally at 10:30 that night, contractions started. I did great at getting through them, but then at 5:00 the next morning, they started pitocin to speed things up, THAT was horrendous.