Originally Posted by CinnamonDeMarco
Kleine is what I call Pro-SAHMing. She thinks SAHMing is ideal (right?) So when we see a post like hers, what should we (collective we) do differently? What do we need to change so we stop having the same arguing. Or do you think she needs to change something about her post?
I think we could collectively have a way to remind ourselves the difference between sharing personal experience/venting and opinionating/philosophising.
So if we see a post like hers -- we could [kindly] post something like:
"I appreciate your opinion about what is "best" but on this forum we are refraining from debating this issue and instead just sharing our experiences and supporting each other and exchanging resources and advice."
I said this before -- I really think a sticky that indicates this would be very helpful.