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post #21 of 64
Zero.
How many times in the last month? zero.
How many times in the 7 months since we created our little prince? maybe 2.

I'm feeling really sorry for myself after reading this thread.

DH is just not putting out.:
post #22 of 64
maybe twice a week. Right now we end up talking too late at night and then are so tired we don't want to DTD. I love having that time with him when we can talk and it feels like we are just getting to know each other, even though we have been friends for 15 yrs. To me that is part of making love. (I do wish I had the energy to do it more though)
post #23 of 64
I'm 9 months pg and we're still at 3-4x a week probably! That's how it's been through the whole pg and how it was with my first, too.

DH says, "I like it when you're pregnant!" Me too! (Especially because when nursing my first baby, I had a very low sex drive, but still made an effort at least once a week...
post #24 of 64
About twice a week (I'm 5 months right now). That's pretty normal for us.
post #25 of 64
Sex, what's that? DH much too freaked out by my belly size (due in 2 weeks, but has been going on ever since getting pregnant). And afterwards he needs time adjusting (think 6 months). What's a girl supposed to do? I am still a woman!!!!
post #26 of 64
Haven't DTD since we conceived in Oct. & even then, we didn't finish! DH is still convinced this baby is not his. Of course it is though. DH has been having some medical issues with his testosterone level, but finally this week we were able to get him his medication. It costs $100 so it better work! I am getting really desperate for some loving!!
post #27 of 64
I can't believe how many men won't have sex with their pregnant wives. Dh could care less. He is always in the mood Sometimes I know I may not feel like, but in the end it's exactly what I needed! We are still dtd about 2 a week. Brings on some nice contractions now though.
post #28 of 64
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Originally Posted by coco4cloth
I can't believe how many men won't have sex with their pregnant wives. Dh could care less. He is always in the mood Sometimes I know I may not feel like, but in the end it's exactly what I needed! We are still dtd about 2 a week. Brings on some nice contractions now though.
I know I'm really shocked by that! The other day dh expressed concern that he might get... uh... excited, in the birth tub and the mw's and doula and my sister will notice! I was like, I can't believe you'd even be thinking that while watching me push a human out of my pee hole! Nothing phases him, I tell you, nothing! I'm the one who doesn't want it.
post #29 of 64
my poor dh. if it were his choice it would be 4 times a week. however I am high risk and on pelvic rest so its zero. I do however....find other ways...to....
ya know, for him, so he isnt so desperate.
post #30 of 64
Does sex with yourself count? If so, then everyday
post #31 of 64
Quote:
Originally Posted by Hazel
my poor dh. if it were his choice it would be 4 times a week. however I am high risk and on pelvic rest so its zero. I do however....find other ways...to....
ya know, for him, so he isnt so desperate.
Dh won't let me just do him, he likes to "share". Sooo irritating because he just goes on badgering me but won't accept my offers for alternatives. :
post #32 of 64
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Originally Posted by Quagmire
Does sex with yourself count? If so, then everyday
You go mama
post #33 of 64
grace-my dh used to be the same way. but I told him since I CANT do anything that he can either be miserable or accept some charity!
he finally gave in and now actually appreciates it!
post #34 of 64
1st pregancy: Not at all after 5 months or so. Then it was a while after the birth. In total we went 8 months with out it. I was determined that this time that wouldn't happen.
We are usually once a weekers, sometimes we miss a week, sometimes we do it twice. DH just wasn't all that into the big belly I think. He said he was afraid to hurt the baby but I don't buy it. I think my shape made me seem too, well, maternal. So I felt a bit too maternal and that has carried over to our sex life even now. It never was quite the same in quality after that. Alot less kink if you know what I mean. I can tell you I may take off months 8 & 9 though. I get so so so big and I just can't imagine feeling sexy enough to DTD!
post #35 of 64
How many times are we having intercourse or just some sort of sex? Intercourse- about 3-4 times a week, other sexual activity: just about everyday. Plus what I do on my own....
post #36 of 64
Quote:
Originally Posted by ice_chick
DH has been having some medical issues with his testosterone level, but finally this week we were able to get him his medication. It costs $100 so it better work! I am getting really desperate for some loving!!
Good luck, I hope it goes well!

My DH was diagnosed with low testosterone but for some reason he's dragging his feet on seeking treatment. It's been almost a year now. Pretty frustrating to me, as I have a very high libido dammit.
post #37 of 64
We get into it about 2-6 times a week. DH travels a LOT for his job so it really depends on if he is town or not. When he is out of town I have BOB (Battery Operated Boyfriend). For some reason this pregnancy he is finding the preggo body really sexy and I really don't remember that he was like that with either of our previous two. (Not that I'm complaining!)

Deb
post #38 of 64
Wow.

We're lucky to get busy once a week. Dh is pushing 40 (his birthday is within a week of when this baby is due), and there is no way he could handle the schedule some of you keep! When we were TTC (had a bit of difficulty), the every other day marathon was almost too much for him to manage.
post #39 of 64
Quote:
Originally Posted by dvons
We get into it about 2-6 times a week. DH travels a LOT for his job so it really depends on if he is town or not. When he is out of town I have BOB (Battery Operated Boyfriend). For some reason this pregnancy he is finding the preggo body really sexy and I really don't remember that he was like that with either of our previous two. (Not that I'm complaining!)

Deb
My dh seems to be the other way around. He was really turned on by my pregginess last time, this time...I wouldn't be able to tell if I didn't ask.

I will say one thing though: I miss foreplay
post #40 of 64
I hadn't been in the mood much for the past month or so...finals...moving...I was stressed. But poor, poor DH is so sweet to me and always tells me how hot he thinks I am even though I'm a beast, so I'd throw him some lovin' once or twice a week.

But lately...chicka BOW (70s porn music). I'm all about it. We did it three times today!!!
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