Originally Posted by Kerry
...who aren't over there.
Good morning everyone. Today is a wonderful day and something amazing is about to happen.
Melanie offered to do some PM listening and affirming above for another Mama. Yesterday I was feeling like I really need someone who understand LoA who will listen to me brain dump (read: hear every boring or disturbing detail of my situation) and help me figure out what I should be focusing on. Right now I feel like we are stuck in something and there isn't a way out without someone getting hurt. I know there is a way out, but since I can't think of what it is, I don't know what to manifest. Ugh. Maybe I should just focus on a postive end for everyone involved? But what if it is better if it doesn't end? AUGH! Would someone please just tell me what we want?
Take a piece of paper. Write down, one per line, everything that is bothering you. Skip a line between.
When you're finished, go back. Now, beside the "bothering you" problem, write what the opposite of that is, or what the resolution of it might be. Here's a couple very easy, obvious examples:
We are in debt.We are financially free.
We argue all the time.There is peace and harmony in our house.
TA DA! Now you know what you want. You want financial freedom, and peace and harmony in your house.